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My best friend has been getting into drugs the last month, and she is now addicted to Cocaine. Her parents and sister know, as well as me and almost everyone in school. She doesn't know how much we all want to help her, and shes getting out of control. She ran out of her house the other day because her mom said she had to do the laundry, she flipped off her mom before she left. Her mom ended up calling me crying asking me questions about her and whats been going on. I explained everything.

I told her she was addicted to Cocaine. Which she already found out. I told her that she doesn't care about anything anymore.

She has always told me that I'm her best friend and she cares so much about me, but now she says that she hates me and I am a hypocrite (She told me this after I said I want her to be healthy again). I get that the drugs are messing with her head, but is there Anything I can do to make her see how much she needs to smarten up?

She has to be able to want the help first, I understand this, but I don't know if she will even talk to me anymore..?

Help??? (link)
heres what you have to do your friend is addicted to cocain well now is the time to be a true friend spend as much time with your friend as possible that your her true friend dont put her down because of the cocainb if she has been doing it for years you cant quite iver night taqke her to na aa get herr to go to doctors they may put her on something to take her off the cocain slow if she craves or ask for the drug of choice nake her caarrot celery sticks grapefruit gingerale tea with dip take her shopping she must haxe low self esteem right now by the sounds of it you reaally care for her if all else fails send her to rehab but stay in contact show her theres more inportanbt things then just the door


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Is it weird not to want sex? Other people have it before they are married, but I want it after. If even then. I always said I would adopt my children. How I see it children are like puppies. Puppies are sent to pounds because they were not able to be taken care of, or not wanted. (Same as children sent to adoption agencies.) And the reason puppies, and children, are not being adopted is because dogs, and women, keep having babies. Then when the puppies owners can't find good homes for them they are sent to the pound, which just keeps on growing. So why would we want children when there are several at adoption aggencies waiting for a good family to arrive and take them home? Plus there is all that pain, and blood. But because I don't want to do it are people gonna try to make me later on? Thanks in advance. (link)
contact me about baby em4val@hotmail.com


i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do? (link)
contact me regarding baby em4val@hotmail.com


I would like it if anyone could help me find information on where I could possibly be eligible for me as a single male to adopt a child. I noticed that it is very hard where i am from thanks to pedophiles. I am from South Africa (link)
contact em4val@hotmail.com


Well I was sexualy abused I asked a question about this before I took the advise told my teacher and my family knows well I needa talk to someone have a hug and just talk I like it when I do with my teacher I feel conftable I don't want to with my family or friends tho I feel as if no1 cares my teacher used to talk to me nd she asked me 2 chat to her sometime but never spoke to me again well not about this anyway and I feel so safe when she hugs and talks to me how can I just get her to talk to me again ? (link)
talk to a conseller you have been victimized and this is wrong the person should be charged he/she v violated your body when a person dose this it is very wroing and they sshould;nt get away witrh this also talk with doctor or nurse if you let this person get away with it someone elkse will get hurt maybe wrose


my name is bunny i m from india my problem is that before doing sex when i go near to my girlfrnd my remerent come out from my penis and not able to do sex for this problem do u have any solution please send me the reply (link)
be calm dont be under stress use candles and music around bed wear something sexy be yourself


I've decided to take a pregnancy test two weeks after taking the morning after pill. is the result going to be accurate or is it possible that the hormones from the morning after pill mess with it? (link)
i have never taken the morning after pill but i suppose it can effect your hormones but take test anyways then get your doctor to do a urine sample and blood sample to make sure your pregnate if your pregnate take vitamins from doctor


Hi, so recently my bf fingered me n we both r very safe ..we clean our hands after that ... n i was suppose to get my periods last week but i didnt get it ... i think its late cause i mite be thinking bout it too much ... additionally i have heard that girls r unable to go any exercise ... but i ran 4km after soo long so yes i was tired but i dont feel horrible .. i havent vomited yet ... could i be pregnant or am i thinking too much .. pls help me out cause i have my final exams next week n i dont want to die with that thought of me being pregnant! (link)
ask and check your last period date should always write your periods on calendar in case of change in periods or problems in period if you have missed your period and not using birth control i would get a home pregnacey test and take it to see if you may be pregante if you are preganate first 3 months don;t lift anything heavy and get theprenatal vitamins vist doctor regular bases


Why is it that I think thru a thought of suicide? I know what it would to to my adult children,and my grandchildren. I truly think that they will get over it, in time. I am so tired of struggling. I've lost my home, my health, my brothers make no contact with me even when I reach out. I am on depression and panic attack meds. I am 53, not overweight. As my daughter told me, "get over with the pity party" (link)
sometimmes people think there ready to give up on life en general but sometimes pople say in the heat of the minute they dont want to live its a cry for help or you wouldnt oif been on here you want to live or you would'nt be asking how to live you have to rember your number 1 and a very special person get a hobby




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