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Could I have STD's?


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 6:22 pm

So Everything was fine until I had sex with my boyfriend a month ago(used a condom). The day after we had sex around my vagina was very itchy but I thought it was just because I had shaved before. After I kept itching it, it got swollen. It was better the next day. Lately it has been itching a lot and if I itch it to much it starts burning. Now it is mostly just the left side that is itching and there is white/dry skin around it(not on the lips but the skin beside it). It seem really irritated especially after I shave. The last time I have had sex was a month ago and nothing since then. Could it just be dry? could I have STD's? Why is it itching so much now? How would I know if I did have STD's or not? (no unusual bumps, No abnormal discharge, normal period)

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I Like This Boy.


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 5:37 pm

I Like This Boy Named George But I Don't Know What To Do. He Plays With Me And Acts Like He Likes Me And Flirts. But Sometimes He Doesn't Want To Talk To Me. Don't Get Me Wrong Were Best Friends. But I Got Expelled From School. He Offers To Carry Me, Hold Me, And Other Stuff. :) I Kiss Him On The Cheek He Kiss Me On The Cheek.. But I'm Not Sure Because Some Days He Acts Different. Plus He Always Tries To Flirt While I'm Around.His Little Sister Is Begging Me To Go Out With Him.. I Really Like Him. What Should I Do? Should I Tell Him? Should I Not Tell Him? Should I Ask Him Out? Please Reply To Makala.

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When people commit suicide, I laugh. Is this wrong? Is it wrong that I feel this way?


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 3:58 pm

Hey everyone :)
I'm sorry if I offend you in any way in this question.

I started to think it would be amazingly problem solving if the world did end on December 21.

Now there's something you all need to know before you answer this, angrily.

I'm a very happy person, I love my family, I love everyone. I just see my life, & everyone's life, as pointless. Everything I care about, everyone I love, is not permanent. Everything dies, nothing lasts forever. So I don't see the point in caring so much about a life that is so unimportant as the ones we lead. This is something that really worries me at times. I feel like my thoughts are very negative, me being the happy, very grateful & thankf...

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What should I do when I see him at school again? I don't even know his name...


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 3:32 pm

Hey everyone :) Sorry about the length, but all of this is relevant to the question, I promise :) (When I say "brother" i mean the guy I was raised with)

At school, in between 5th & 6th period, there's always this guy I notice staring at me. He would hold the door & kind of watch me as I walk away. One day he stopped right in front of me on the stairs, & when I looked up at him, he just smirked and stood there. He finally moved, & I kept walking. This happened again a few days later, but this time I got closer to him & said, "Excuse me." & waited for him to move. Other days, he just stood close to me & stared at me. I thought this was really strange, but I thought he was funny &...

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I asked this guy for his number ..


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 12:05 pm

So i like this guy at school .. I finally asked him for his number friday but he kinda hesitated :/ .. he was like ''I I I I dont have my phone right now uhh ill ill talk to you later'' then he walked away .. Does this mean he was nervous or does it mean he needed an excuse to get out of it??

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Sex: How do I know if I am ready for it or not?


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 11:58 am

How do I know if I'm ready or not ??

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Never ending pattern.


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 11:23 am

This has happened about 5 times in a row. When I start to like a girl and she ends up not liking me or liking someone else. Sometimes I think it's just coincidence, then sometimes I think something is wrong with me. I have a friend in a band with me, he always ends up getting a girl because of his gay hair. Once I liked this girl, so I asked her to come to a buffet with me, she came,....and so did my friend. She ended up liking my friend. In front of me. Even though he barely spoke. Then I met this other girl who liked him. So I helped them out and what not, but she still talks to me more. Why is it that he just has to sit there with his gay hair, and people just love him? I don't get it. I don't have Facebook. So I'm not going to be sendin...

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I don't know if I should continue the friendship.


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 8:56 am

A 13 year old girl. Many fights with female best friend in school. So now we 'broke up'and she is giving me cold shoulder. To try and keep the friendship going, I said sorry many times to her even though I wasn't at fault at times. However, she just took advantage of me. She bears grudges because I did some mean things last year but I made up for it. She keeps using that incident against me even though she said she 'forgave me'. I feel frustrated. I really want to get back with her as best friends but I think she is extremely selfish. I just want her to not be angry anymore...What should I do? Or should I just let go because she is so mean and biatchy? Thanks.

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MAKEOUT WEIRDNESS


Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 1:42 am

im a sophore in high school and i have never hooked up with anyone. This week i met a really cool guy, SENIOR guy, named John. Well out of know where, we eneded up haning out this weekend. I was really excited since I had a huge crush on John and all, so i wanted to be with him, and yes , also makeout with him too, if there was a chance. So anyway, we did makeout. it should have been perfect. it was at the beach, at night. so pretty. But the makeout felt weird. im not sure why because I really liked him, but i felt like gross and wanted to stop. like it just felt wrong. Im not sure anymore if i like him, or if theres seomthing wrong with me? like why dont i like hooking up? and am i gay or something? like what??? please help.

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Mood or Emotion Medicine/Prescription I can take?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 6:41 pm

What types of medicine or prescriptions can I take for my moods or emotions? Being around my family and being oppressed is toxic for me. Im in highschool and im a freshmen so of course the first year is very stressful. If I miss one friday afternoon to myself to just dance,listen to music, and relax, before the next huge week thats full of things, then Im messed up. That Newtown shooting fucked my afternoon up and I couldnt have time to myself because my sister wanted to use the tv downstairs which is my territory. I have finals next week and yesterday was the ONLY afternoon I was going to have
a time of meditation and release. And now I can't...
IM TIRED OF FEELING LIKE THIS. I GET ANGRY FAST
AND THERE IS NOTHING THAT ...

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How to find out or ask out my bestest guy friend


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 5:51 pm

Ok we'll I'm only 12 and the guy I like is in my class at school so we are in the same classes and I think he considers me as a friend because we're NEVER alone together went we talk or sit together or anything like that and he never writes back if I pass him a note. But right now your probobly thinking that he doesn't like me but somtimes it's like he's sending me mixed signals and its confusing me I mean he does send signals that he likes me and signals that he just wants to be friends and I don't know what I should do like if I should ask him out your tell him I like him or change my appearance on what he complements me on if you know what I mean. But yeah I'm so confused and I'm asking if you can tell me what I should do or say your an...

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need some guys advice


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 5:41 pm

I am a 17 year old virgin girl asking for guys advice, In general I don’t like dealing with a lot of emotions which is why I am currently in a very causal relationship type thing with this guy. I enjoy it, he enjoys it and neither of us has to fuss with commitment or dating. I never really believed that virginity was something special and just something you have to go through to enjoy sex, I want to lose my virginity and the guy I am currently fooling around with(who is a bit of a man whor) seems more than willing. my problem is I know it is not going to be good, that it could hurt, and I am mostly afraid that somewhere in the middle of it some deep seeded crazy female hormones will kick in and make me go crazy and become a class “A” ...

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Help me get over her?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 5:18 pm

(f)
Ok so i have only ever been interested in guys before... but for a few months now i have found myself falling in love with my English Tutor, she is straight and i have a boyfriend... and i have no idea what to do. I think about her all the time.. And i get wierd butterflies when ever i am near her.
Jesus, i though it'd go away but it doesnt and i think about her ALL the time.. and it's making me become distant from my boyfriend, bless him.
I seriously have fallen for her. and i shouldn't feel this way. Help?
x

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Can You Freeze Mascarpone cheese without ruining it?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 3:46 pm

I made a huge bowl of mascarpone (cheese) buttercream filling, can I freeze what is left?

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2 years and he leaves me without explaination? How do I cope?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 2:05 pm

Hi, 20/f and he is 19/m.

We were together for two years in November. Three months after he got with me, he left me for having mixed emotions for his previous ex. He came back after three days, because I think- when he called her, she told him she had a boyfriend, and thats why he came back. I didn't find any of that out until 5 months later. But I stayed with him. He seemed to really be over her, and had no intentions of wanting her back. So about 9 months ago, I texted him from my new cell number, acting like her, and he told her he didn't want her back, he was over her, and he cared for her, just not like that. He knew in his heart that they would not work out. I told him that was my number and it was me the whole time, and...

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I wanna have sex at my charter school, but its very strict. My mom won't let me at home.


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 1:22 pm

I wanna have sex at my charter school, but its very strict. What shall I do? Cuz my mom doesnt allow me to have set at home...

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Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex girlfriend?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 10:51 am

F/15
I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now, I've noticed his ex-girlfriend is constantly texting him. He was in the shower when I had a urge to go through his phone, I looked through his inbox and they was loads of messages from her saying "I love you" "You piss me off so much" etc. I didn't get chance to read through his outbox because I heard him coming to the room. I know it's a bad thing to do, to go through his phone but I have some feeling he still has feelings for her :/ I've confronted him and asked him if he still does, but he says he doesn't and starts calling her names such as "tart" he also has texts from when they were together! Now why would you still keep your text messages? I'm so confused about it all...

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i don't like being fingered... what is wrong with me?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 9:38 am

hey jasmine
i'm 15 years old and I've been fingered by 2 guys
but strangely i somehow don't get any kind of pleasure in fingering
is there something wrong ?
like i mean i read on a lot of websites about the reason being the guy not handling the clitoris but even that didn't help
please help !


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Why am I so bored?


Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 8:17 am

I'm really bored for some reason. CAn you give me some advice on how to solve it.

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is my mom cheating (con'td)


Posted Friday December 14 2012, 9:34 pm

13/f So I decided to ignore the texts like someone suggested but then things started getting more heated like late night calls and going over. I think she's still up to something. like I said before in my previous question that I snooped around even though I wasn't suppose to but I was worried. I know I may lose my mom's trust but I had to. I also left notes on her phone about it.... what do I do now?

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