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Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex girlfriend?


Question Posted Saturday December 15 2012, 10:51 am

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I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now, I've noticed his ex-girlfriend is constantly texting him. He was in the shower when I had a urge to go through his phone, I looked through his inbox and they was loads of messages from her saying "I love you" "You piss me off so much" etc. I didn't get chance to read through his outbox because I heard him coming to the room. I know it's a bad thing to do, to go through his phone but I have some feeling he still has feelings for her :/ I've confronted him and asked him if he still does, but he says he doesn't and starts calling her names such as "tart" he also has texts from when they were together! Now why would you still keep your text messages? I'm so confused about it all...

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Imperfectionist answered Monday December 17 2012, 6:17 pm:
sounds like not only does he still have feelings for her but it might even be possible he is still involved with her.

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Xui answered Saturday December 15 2012, 7:10 pm:
It sounds like he could be possibly cheating on you. If a man still holds onto old baggage then he can never truly give his current relationship a full commitment.The reality of it, he should of told her to stop texting and blocked her on Facebook and he didn't. Don't need much more proof then that. To make matters worse he is not being honest with you about it but instead leading you on.

Find someone who is into you and has the ex out of his life.

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Never2bAlone answered Saturday December 15 2012, 5:59 pm:
Yes he has feelings and he is doing more than just texting her. Believe me, when he talks to her about you, you are the tart. He is playing both sides. If you feel the need to go through his phone than you shouldn't be with him. You deserve a relationship with someone who respects you enough to end all communication with his ex. You need to move on before you invest any more time and emotion into him. You deserve so much more than this. I promise you will end up hurt. Trust me I know what I'm talking about. Your gut feelings don't lie.

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