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Never ending pattern.


Question Posted Sunday December 16 2012, 11:23 am

This has happened about 5 times in a row. When I start to like a girl and she ends up not liking me or liking someone else. Sometimes I think it's just coincidence, then sometimes I think something is wrong with me. I have a friend in a band with me, he always ends up getting a girl because of his gay hair. Once I liked this girl, so I asked her to come to a buffet with me, she came,....and so did my friend. She ended up liking my friend. In front of me. Even though he barely spoke. Then I met this other girl who liked him. So I helped them out and what not, but she still talks to me more. Why is it that he just has to sit there with his gay hair, and people just love him? I don't get it. I don't have Facebook. So I'm not going to be sending random requests and weird messages like most of my friends. Then some people tell me it's weird that I'm 17 and have never been with a girl. I know that there's nothing wrong with that. But when society keeps pointing it out, and your friend is doing all of this in front of you (one time with the one you used to like)It's hard to believe that there isn't anything wrong with me. My brother, my dad, my friends, they make fun of me sometimes. And I don't get why the feminine guy with long hair always gets the girl.

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Shinney12 answered Wednesday December 19 2012, 3:20 pm:
I'm a 13 year old girl myself, so maybe i can help with your question. :)

ok... so... first of all a lot of girls like long hair these days, i for one, LOVE guys with long hair, and it sort of helps with their appearance in a way. There is nothing wrong with you, and its good that you know its fine that you havn't been with a girl yet. Have you told your friend you like these girls? if not then he probably doesn't know that you like them, and takes a chance with them. I'm sorry that your friends, brother, and dad make fun of you at times, it can be very embarrassing. But just keep in mind that God has the perfect girl waiting for you. He will bring her to you when its time, so don't give your hopes up.Just be patient. I hope this helped, and remember that God loves you most of all.

Good Luck


~ Shinney ~

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