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i have two lots of cancer and old age diabetes and physically disabled and dont show any signs of dying i would like to so i can be with my husband. i have carers and a daughter who find me
a problem - i was given 2 weeks to live 11 months ago. how many units of fast acting insulin would i need to take to successfully end my life
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I'm really sorry you feel this way, but killing yourself is not a solution. You need to live your life, because when God wants you to go, he will take you. You need to get right with God so he can help you, and if you kill yourself, you won't be with your husband. You will be in a horrible place, and horrible isn't even the word for hell. Hell jut name s its self. I hope i helped, if i can help you any more please contact me.
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Im 13 and i really like this girl i asked her out already once but she rejected me and forgot about it now we are "just friends" what can i do to make our relationship bigger and make us closer? (link)
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Just keep hanging out, and if you were meant to be, you two will eventually be together.
hope this helped.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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What English dubbed anime has a boy as the main character that seems weak but is really strong? (link)
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idk sry :\
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So I'm 16 and I've being texting a guy who my friend knows and we've really being hitting it off! we can send each other hundreds of texts a day and have being doing so for a few months! I've got him on Facebook and we talk on there as well, but the problem is that he lives 200miles away so for the time being ill never meet him, but he seems so genuinely nice and caring!! I think I might love him but what do I do?
Please help, any advice is welcome! (link)
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Hi, i'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i never met, so i hope this helps ha! :)
I didn't really care for him when i first met him, but my friend kinda influenced me into liking him, and i soon realized i did like him. I soon got the courage to ask him he liked me and he said yes (we sent pics. back and forth.) So we r now "dating" we are together, but from a long distance (i think you get it now ha :P) Ok... so u can ask him if he likes you, and any other questions to find out more about each other! hope this helped!
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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This has happened about 5 times in a row. When I start to like a girl and she ends up not liking me or liking someone else. Sometimes I think it's just coincidence, then sometimes I think something is wrong with me. I have a friend in a band with me, he always ends up getting a girl because of his gay hair. Once I liked this girl, so I asked her to come to a buffet with me, she came,....and so did my friend. She ended up liking my friend. In front of me. Even though he barely spoke. Then I met this other girl who liked him. So I helped them out and what not, but she still talks to me more. Why is it that he just has to sit there with his gay hair, and people just love him? I don't get it. I don't have Facebook. So I'm not going to be sending random requests and weird messages like most of my friends. Then some people tell me it's weird that I'm 17 and have never been with a girl. I know that there's nothing wrong with that. But when society keeps pointing it out, and your friend is doing all of this in front of you (one time with the one you used to like)It's hard to believe that there isn't anything wrong with me. My brother, my dad, my friends, they make fun of me sometimes. And I don't get why the feminine guy with long hair always gets the girl. (link)
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I'm a 13 year old girl myself, so maybe i can help with your question. :)
ok... so... first of all a lot of girls like long hair these days, i for one, LOVE guys with long hair, and it sort of helps with their appearance in a way. There is nothing wrong with you, and its good that you know its fine that you havn't been with a girl yet. Have you told your friend you like these girls? if not then he probably doesn't know that you like them, and takes a chance with them. I'm sorry that your friends, brother, and dad make fun of you at times, it can be very embarrassing. But just keep in mind that God has the perfect girl waiting for you. He will bring her to you when its time, so don't give your hopes up.Just be patient. I hope this helped, and remember that God loves you most of all.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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So i like this guy at school .. I finally asked him for his number friday but he kinda hesitated :/ .. he was like ''I I I I dont have my phone right now uhh ill ill talk to you later'' then he walked away .. Does this mean he was nervous or does it mean he needed an excuse to get out of it?? (link)
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It depends on the guy. He probably likes you and is nervous about you asking this, and/or either he doesn't have a phone and is embarrassed. If he is telling the truth about not having his phone right now, there is probably a good reason why. Hope this helped!
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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Hey everyone :)
I'm sorry if I offend you in any way in this question.
I started to think it would be amazingly problem solving if the world did end on December 21.
Now there's something you all need to know before you answer this, angrily.
I'm a very happy person, I love my family, I love everyone. I just see my life, & everyone's life, as pointless. Everything I care about, everyone I love, is not permanent. Everything dies, nothing lasts forever. So I don't see the point in caring so much about a life that is so unimportant as the ones we lead. This is something that really worries me at times. I feel like my thoughts are very negative, me being the happy, very grateful & thankful person that I am. My own thoughts confuse me.
I think that with all of these people I see on Facebook with completely naked pictures & people saying they hate their parents, bath salts, babies with iPhones, people who don't say I love you to their parents because its "embarrassing", crimes committed every day that involve deaths, people with no confidence, peer pressure, jealousy, addiction, teen pregnancy, rape, shooting in a theatre, shooting of children that could be the next president one day, & hate in general.
I'll tell you one thing. When people commit suicide, I laugh. The only people I would cry over taking their own life is a schizophrenic. They all have a good reason to want to die. They're trapped in their own brain.
People take things for granted. I would never take my family or my friends, or anyone who wants to be around me AT ALL for granted. My life is too important to me for me to be spending it with hate.
Keep in mind, I want to live my life. I want to be happy as much as possible. But I can't just sit back & not say anything about the very sad & careless things that happen every day, & the crimes committed toward innocent people every day. This is my first attempt at saying something. Feel free to call me names, speak your mind. I want to know what people think.
Is it bad that I feel this way? Am I the only one? Am I wrong?
Any comments/opinions are appreciated.
If in any way, this upsets you, please let me know why.
Thank you for reading :) & have a nice day :D (link)
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I have no clue why you feel like this. Im not gonna preach, but if you are not saved, please get involved in church. God will answer any questions you have if you just ask him, and if you listen and are patient, he will answer you. Im not really sure what else to say, and i dont know why but i just felt like i needed to answer you question. Hope i helped and remember, God loves you most of all!
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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Hey everyone :) Sorry about the length, but all of this is relevant to the question, I promise :) (When I say "brother" i mean the guy I was raised with)
At school, in between 5th & 6th period, there's always this guy I notice staring at me. He would hold the door & kind of watch me as I walk away. One day he stopped right in front of me on the stairs, & when I looked up at him, he just smirked and stood there. He finally moved, & I kept walking. This happened again a few days later, but this time I got closer to him & said, "Excuse me." & waited for him to move. Other days, he just stood close to me & stared at me. I thought this was really strange, but I thought he was funny & he didn't stink, so I let it continue.
Yesterday I went to a party at my friend's house (I was raised with him) because it was his dad's birthday. When we got there, the same guy that I saw at school was there, (I didn't know that they knew each other) & he was looking at me with these eyes that said something, but I don't know what. After a few more looks, I said "where have I seen you before?" He smiled & walked away. The guy I was raised with introduced me to his group of friends who were at the party. When he got to the guy at school, I said "I already know him..." & he grinned. I smiled & said "nice to meet you" & walked away. I was talking to him a few times after that, & he said that he knew my "brother" for a long time. He asked me to dance.
The first time, he didn't really try anything. The only thing he did was try to put his head against mine to make it look like we were really into it, but I moved my head away, pretty roughly I think. It was a reflex, & I felt bad & put my face close to his so that our foreheads touched. He smiled, & I pulled away, more gently this time. That time, we were the only ones dancing at the second half of the song. We would just look at each other, smile, look at each other again. One time we both licked our lips & looked at each other & I thought he was gonna kiss me. I looked in the mirror & I saw that he looked really into it. When I saw we were the only ones dancing, I said "You know we are the only ones dancing right?" He held me firmer & closer, looked at me, & said "I know."
The second time I danced with him, he held me closer. Our knees touched a few times, & even though I am definitely not attracted to him, my breathing got heavier. I'm pretty sure he noticed my breathing, but hopefully thought that it was just because we were dancing. Once again, we were the only ones dancing. I pointed it out, & he smiled. He spun me around about 9 times & once, I purposely messed up the direction in which he wanted me to spin & he laughed at me & looked at me with those eyes again. He tried to get me to look at him a lot too but I tried not to.
He asked me to dance 2 more times after that. I said no, and went on the laptop to listen to music and answer some questions on here, & Netflix because I was tired of dancing & walking around for 5 hours. He came in the room with my "brother" and he got suddenly really shy & he said "no you tell her!" To my brother & he thought of something really quickly & said "he wants to use the computer." But he didn't make any move to come & use it when I asked him.
So my questions is, do you think he likes me? And what should I do when I see him at school again? I don't even know his name... (link)
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OMG!!! i wish that was me! he sounds really sweet! and yes i know he likes you, there's not really any other answer to this behavior. You should ask your "brother" what his name is. you can try to talk to your brother about him and whats going on. when you see him at school again, just be yourself, keep talking more, hang out more, and get to know each other better.You might soon find that your attracted to him, it happens all the time, the more time you spend with someone, the more attractive they become.
I hope i answered all your questions!!! :D
Good Luck
~Shinney~
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i would like to k now how can i ignore my boyfriend even if we live together (link)
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Umm.. its pretty simple just don't look at, talk to, or acknowledge him. Even tho it would probably be better to try and work things out thats some suggestions.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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How do I touch this one girls butt im 11 but her butt looks so good (link)
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Woah!!!! Wait a second here buddy,
Im a 13 year old girl,
U cant touch a girl's butt without her noticng for starters.Second thats sexual harassment and can get u in SERIOUSLY DEEP TROUBLE.When i was in elementry school a guy would touch my butt, and a bunch of other girls. He go in trouble becuase one girl told on him. so sry buddy no can do.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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well you see my boyfriend and i have been dating almost 7 months now. his parents are split up and his mom is movng away to another city he cant live with his dad because they always fight and it turns physical . i will be 17 on march and he will be 18 on apirl my mom love my boyfirend but i just dont know what to say to let my mom have him move in . Yes we are haveing sex and she know this, im on birthcontrol and we always us a condom. for extra safety. what are somthing i can say to have my mom at least consider haveing my boyfirend move in . some additional facts is my bofirend just got his ged we are awaiting to see if he past whitch will be on the 26 of this month . he is applying to work so he could help with some bills or my mom could charge him rent 100 a month or what ever she chooses and he will be attending school for his career i am still in school but i am not allowed to work till the following year (school year)since that will be when i turn 18. (link)
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Hi, i'm not trying to sound criticizing or like i'm telling what to do, or even like i'm preaching. But, he doesn't need to move in, he should go live with an aunt, uncle, cosin, friend (guy friend), etc. You also shouldn't be sexually active until your married. I'm sure you love him very much, but you are making the wrong decisions. Pray to God, and he will give you an answer. Remember God loves you.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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I am 5ft 1in and weigh 128.6lbs. My BMI says I am overweight and I do believe so. My stomach sticks out, I have large thighs, and went curved over to the side you can see fat rolls. I am really short for my age which makes me seem larger than I am. I've always been self concious and have gone to the extremes to lose weight (consuming 75 calories a day and burning off 200-500 calories per day.) and I have a personal trainer who I see once or twice a week. I do not eat bad very often and I still don't eat much because I got used to 75cal a day. My dad was verbally abusive growing up. He said me and my sister were fat and that we would die alone because nobody lives fat people. He forced her to run on the treadmill every morning because he thought she was fat even though she was a normal weight. He would wake us up at midnight to run hills until we cried. We were near six years old. He is a bodybuilder and crazy about our weight and compared us to friends and to each other. It hurt our self esteem horribly. My friends are naturally skinny and I want to be like them!!! I have a field trip in June and want to be thinner. What can I do to lose weight? (link)
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl too, so I hope this helps. I'm sorry to hear this about your father. You just have to eat right, and do some type of exercise for about 30 minutes a day. You could jump rope, walk, run, jog, or anything else like that.Don't push yourself to hard either. Just don't let anyone, make you feel worthless! Push yourself to have perfect self esteem! Everyone loves you, it doesn't matter what your body shape is. Your friends, body shape is different than theirs, and that's perfectly fine. God made everyone different. God loves you.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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I am a freshman female in college. I've been moved in for about three months now. Some of my neighbors in my dorm are really rude and clique-y, I've made friends with some of the nice ones and then there's my cute neighbor who is really shy. He plays guitar and talks to people and has friends but he is usually with his roommate or in his room studying. I've realized lately, that he has been branching out and hanging out with some of our other neighbors. He even talked to my roommate. Yet, when he and I cross paths in the hall way or somewhere, he can barely look at me, he looks at the ground after looking at me straight in the eyes for about two seconds. We've never talked either. I don't know why this is. I can't tell if it is just because he's shy or I intimidate him or maybe (hopefully) he has a teensy crush on me. He can talk to his roommate, obviously, he talks to my roommate, he made friends with a good majority of our other neighbors except for a small handful. Why can't he talk to me or even look at me? (link)
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He probably has a little crush on you. Shy guys are like that. He's probably is talking to your roommates,trying to find out a little bit about you. When you pass him in the hall, say "Hi" and smile! If you do that he might feel less uncomfortable around you, and you might start talking, and who knows what will happen next?
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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Guys will make fun of my large breast size and my height. Nobody likes to talk to me and girls laugh at my weight causing low self esteem and starvation. EVERYONE laughs at me for being black and having white friends. What do I do? I'm very shy and have a fear of standing up and talking for myself because of years of abuse. I try to laugh it off but at the end if the day it's so painful! I'm so sorry and I don't mean to complain. What can I do to get them to stop without everyone laughing at me. Thank you. (link)
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Hey, i'm sorry to hear this. It doesn't matter what color you or your friends are. I'm white and I hang out with black people. You should try your best to ignore everyone, I know its hard, I get made fun of myself quiet often. I've been made fun of for being shy too, and people think i'm stuck up (I'm not, I just have my guard up around new people.) So just pray to the Lord about it, and he will help you. Feel e -mail me if you want to. Just remember, God loves you!
Good Luck!:)
~ Shinney ~
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Hi,
I've been going out with my girfriend for just over a year now and I love her so much, sometimes it hurts. I know that I would do anything for her. A few months ago (maybe 3-4) I started saying "I love you" to her, and she says it back. I can really describe how much those words mean to me when she says them (she sometimes says it first).
BUT there are a few times when I feel like she doen't really believe or see how much she means to me.
- she'll say "Im fat/ugly/etc" (she's not btw) and then when I try to encourage her otherwise, I can tell she doesn't believe me.
- id I give her a compliment, "I like you dress", "you're beautiful" etc, she gets this funny little look like she thinks im lying or 'just saying it' without really meaning it
- a few of times shes said something like "what happens when you get tired of me and go to some one else" this one really hurts. It hurts one hell of a lot, because I love her so much. Honestly, not once since I've been with her have I ever considered leaving her, or being with someone else and I KNOW that I will never 'go behind her back'. I reasurred her, and told her how much she means to me and that I would never leave her for someone else etc etc, and yet she said it again...
- she's also said "how do you know you're in love with me if I'm your first...you probably only *think* love me because Im your first." This one is like a kick in the gut too. Yes, I've never been with anyone else, but that was deliberate because I didnt want to get into a "superficial" relationship.
I'm afraid that she doesn't believe or see how much she really means to me, and I'm afraid that this will lead to her eventually leaving me. Having never been in a relationsip before, I feel completly helpless as to what to say or do to show how I feel. I've tried as best as I know how, but clearly it's not enough.
PS. Im 20 and she's 22
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ok im 13 and yes im a girl. she may associate some things you said with past relationships (not saying anything negative bout you or her), like her ex could have said things like that, and could have cheated, used her, abused her, called her the opposite of those things, etc. since this is your first "real" relationship with a woman, its ok to feel helpless. keep telling her those things, and try your best to show it by, bragging on her in public, compliminting her in public,etc. you should ask your friends and family about advice too.
Good Luck! :)
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I'm 14 and I am scared to commit suicide. My reason for these thoughts are:
1. I don't have any friends at school.
2. I never had a girlfriend in my life.
3. My parents like my sister more than me.
4. My parents always get mad at me.
5. The Biggest One: I locked my mom's computer and she has to pay $200 within 48 hours, and if she does, I won't have a christmas
I just I really don't believe in God, because nothing good in my life has happened. I really want to commit suicide, but I'm afraid.
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look i have even thought of committing suicide myself no jk. i promise you God loves you soo much! he doesnt want you to feel like this, and neither do i. if you will pray to God, and ask him about all this he will help you. he has a plan and purpose for you!Think about you parents and your sister and all of your family! God is saving the right girl for you, and you will know when he brings her to you. dont be afraid to talk to people, you need to to make friends. Your parents may be struggiling and dont mean to blame everything on you. Your parents love you and your sister the same! and you didnt mean to lock your mom's computer. feel free to email me.I will have you in my prayers. and remember God loves you most of all!
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