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I'm in love with a guy I've never actually met


Question Posted Sunday December 30 2012, 12:11 pm

So I'm 16 and I've being texting a guy who my friend knows and we've really being hitting it off! we can send each other hundreds of texts a day and have being doing so for a few months! I've got him on Facebook and we talk on there as well, but the problem is that he lives 200miles away so for the time being ill never meet him, but he seems so genuinely nice and caring!! I think I might love him but what do I do?

Please help, any advice is welcome!


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engagedpuppet answered Wednesday January 2 2013, 6:31 am:
I am pretty much in the same situation - except more complex.
It is crazy isn't it...? But its a good crazy - Apparently if you feel the same within 4 months, your classed as 'in love'... well... If 4 months goes past and you feel the same, tell him.
Because these feelings are just going to carry on otherwise...

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Lenore answered Monday December 31 2012, 12:20 am:
It's always hard to say or tell if you love someone over just technology. Over reading this if you were truly inlove with him you would of shown it more when you typed. Like "I met thie wonderful guy that is very sweet and treats me nicly. We text and talk all the time i love it and i think i might love him". I feel like you would of been more lovely like with your words. I think it's possible you really like this guy but love..no. And you can like him you've talked and shared things. But long distance is very hard..expecialy if you never see him. Love can work in many ways though i'm not saying you might not feel as if you're inlove but i dont think you are expecialy since you've never met the guy. Anyone can say anything over texting and computer but if you really met the guy will he actually be as sweet and kind as he was in the texts...sometimes people can say things but never show them. Hope i could help you out.

Your friend,
Lenore

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theadvicegal answered Sunday December 30 2012, 9:00 pm:
My first love was with this girl I met over twitter. We recently broke things off, but that's besides the point. I never met her and she lives in Kentucky in the States, and I in Ontario Canada. We skyped often and messaged everyday getting to know SO much about each other. It wasn't until about 3 months in the we finally exchanged the words "I love you" to each other.

Now while it's very possible to love someone you've never met, some people aren't truly in love and only think they are. Do you know a lot about each other? Have you guys ever skyped? Exchanged deep secrets? Those are only a few examples, and I'm not saying you aren't truly in love, but just think about those things.

Just be careful with this because distance is a risk. I learned that, but I won't bore you with my whole love story. Just make sure you aren't rushing things, take it easy, and good luck.

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Shinney12 answered Sunday December 30 2012, 8:39 pm:
Hi, i'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i never met, so i hope this helps ha! :)

I didn't really care for him when i first met him, but my friend kinda influenced me into liking him, and i soon realized i did like him. I soon got the courage to ask him he liked me and he said yes (we sent pics. back and forth.) So we r now "dating" we are together, but from a long distance (i think you get it now ha :P) Ok... so u can ask him if he likes you, and any other questions to find out more about each other! hope this helped!

Good Luck


~ Shinney ~

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