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how do i convince my mom to let my boyfirend move in
well you see my boyfriend and i have been dating almost 7 months now. his parents are split up and his mom is movng away to another city he cant live with his dad because they always fight and it turns physical . i will be 17 on march and he will be 18 on apirl my mom love my boyfirend but i just dont know what to say to let my mom have him move in . Yes we are haveing sex and she know this, im on birthcontrol and we always us a condom. for extra safety. what are somthing i can say to have my mom at least consider haveing my boyfirend move in . some additional facts is my bofirend just got his ged we are awaiting to see if he past whitch will be on the 26 of this month . he is applying to work so he could help with some bills or my mom could charge him rent 100 a month or what ever she chooses and he will be attending school for his career i am still in school but i am not allowed to work till the following year (school year)since that will be when i turn 18.
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You can ask your mom, but he should be living with family for two reasons. That is your mom's house not yours. And a $100 a month is nothing, because that doesn't cover the extra food she'll have to put in the house, the water he'll be using, the electric he'll be using, the gas, the cable and etc he'll be using in her house. $100 could probably cover the food though. And the other reason is he has a family, his mom is dying, she is moving and her son should go with her. If he can't survive with his dad. And i'm sure he has other relatives he can live with. If you want to live with your boyfriend, start saving up. and get your own apartment together.
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Hi, i'm not trying to sound criticizing or like i'm telling what to do, or even like i'm preaching. But, he doesn't need to move in, he should go live with an aunt, uncle, cosin, friend (guy friend), etc. You also shouldn't be sexually active until your married. I'm sure you love him very much, but you are making the wrong decisions. Pray to God, and he will give you an answer. Remember God loves you.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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