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Scared of Commiting Suicide
I'm 14 and I am scared to commit suicide. My reason for these thoughts are:
1. I don't have any friends at school.
2. I never had a girlfriend in my life.
3. My parents like my sister more than me.
4. My parents always get mad at me.
5. The Biggest One: I locked my mom's computer and she has to pay $200 within 48 hours, and if she does, I won't have a christmas
I just I really don't believe in God, because nothing good in my life has happened. I really want to commit suicide, but I'm afraid.
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So we have all made mistakes that made us feel world ending.
1. I didn't either. For the longest time. all i had was myself. It does take time. Maybe try joining a club or a class where you could meet someone in an after school activity.
2. You are only 14 bro,. you have your whole life to date. and date you will :P
3. I had the same issue with the sister thing. it may seem like they do like your sister more than you, it's not that at all. they like you just as much it's just the girl syndrome so don't even think of it.
4. Parents get mad at you in a way to teach you the rights and wrongs of life. they are only looking at your best interest.
5. A simple mistake. Everyone makes them. I've done too many mistakes (age 21) So trust me when i say everyone makes mistakes it's a way of learning. it's also how we grow and discover
Don't commit suicide. you have a whole life ahead of you and have so much going for you
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look i have even thought of committing suicide myself no jk. i promise you God loves you soo much! he doesnt want you to feel like this, and neither do i. if you will pray to God, and ask him about all this he will help you. he has a plan and purpose for you!Think about you parents and your sister and all of your family! God is saving the right girl for you, and you will know when he brings her to you. dont be afraid to talk to people, you need to to make friends. Your parents may be struggiling and dont mean to blame everything on you. Your parents love you and your sister the same! and you didnt mean to lock your mom's computer. feel free to email me.I will have you in my prayers. and remember God loves you most of all!
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PLEASE forgive me if I sound rude but I'm going to call it like I see it and tell you how it is.
You're afraid because you don't want to commit suicide. Because you know how much it would hurt your family. You know suicide is permanant and that your problems are temporary.
Your reasons for suicide aren't valid reasons to kill yourself. THEY ARE VALID REASONS TO KEEP LIVING.
If you don't have friends at school, then put yourself out there and make friends. BE YOURSELF. And NEVER compromise who you are just to hang out with somebody.
There's nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at your age. I'm 16 and I never had a girlfriend before either. But I'm not upset about it. Because I know that there may be a girl in my future. You may have a girlfriend in your future too but you won't find out if you give up and commit suicide.
So what if your parents like your sister more. You keep living, graduate high school, go to an amazing college and prove your parents WRONG. Let them know that you are not a shadow but you are their SON.
My parents always get mad at me too. You know why? BECAUSE THEY LOVE ME! Your parents love you too. We don't understand this because we're teenagers. But when we become parents ourselves we start to understand every single thing that are parents ever did.
And now to your last reason. I broke an antique of my mom's. I also burnt a lunchable in the microwave before. I accidentally got a hole in her wall. I cracked one of her plates. I broke some glass and didn't do a good job sweeping it up and my dad cut his foot. WE'RE TEENAGERS! We're always going to do stupid stuff that costs our parents money. It's a part of life.
I know you don't believe in God. I'm not here to preach at you, but I wish you could know that God loves you no matter what.
I realy hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: Keep living!
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