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I don't know if I should continue the friendship.
A 13 year old girl. Many fights with female best friend in school. So now we 'broke up'and she is giving me cold shoulder. To try and keep the friendship going, I said sorry many times to her even though I wasn't at fault at times. However, she just took advantage of me. She bears grudges because I did some mean things last year but I made up for it. She keeps using that incident against me even though she said she 'forgave me'. I feel frustrated. I really want to get back with her as best friends but I think she is extremely selfish. I just want her to not be angry anymore...What should I do? Or should I just let go because she is so mean and biatchy? Thanks.
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Dear Friend, Sabrina Naddie said it all, She really gave you a nice advice.
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I could see that you're trying to reconcile with her but unfortunately , she's not doing the same thing you're doing . To me , if someone takes advantage of you without knowing the impact on the relationship , she has clearly trespassed the limit . Don't worry , accept the problems regarding the friendship as a challenge or as an experience for you . You could try to learn more about her which is , knowing who she really is and her story . In life , everyone has a painful story which sometimes inevitably changes the person who's enduring it . If she still acts as if she couldn't care less about you , then let her be . Don't follow her steps and if possible , be nice to her . She'll remember you more if you show 'love' to her but still , if i were you , i would let her go . You tried to stick the broken pieces together right ? So now , wait and see if it pays off . Realise that if she doesn't change , then that's her choice . You can't change it . I know that you don't want to see her become angry or anything , but you've said it yourself . Let her go for a moment , and see if she comes back . For now , don't worry . Don't worry too much , be friendly to everyone . You'll lose nothing at all :)
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I don't really understand the question, but I think if you're not happy, you should avoid her
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