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She says I'll leave her if she tells me
Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 2:27 am
Apparently, my girlfriend did something that if she tells me what it was, I'll actually leave her.
I'm a very tolerant, and patient person. I'm very concerned about what she did, but I'm not going to push her to tell me. I am, however, pushing that we do couple counseling soon, so that we can be a better couple.
Point is, how would I tell if she cheated on me?
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Romeo
Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 12:12 am
Female/Age16
My boyfriend is the sweetest thing! The only problem is a lot of the time, I have to make the decisions/suggestions on romantic things like where to go or what to do (example: dinner and a movie, beach, walk, ect.) I don't mind it sometimes but I don't want to make every single decision you know. I love him so much but I don't want to tell him straight up that I want him to make decisions/suggestions sometimes. How else can I tell him?
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Gift for boyfriend?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 11:44 pm
So, basically my boyfriend is going on vacation next month for about a month and a half about 4 states away from me, and I won't get to see him at all! He told me he's going to give me his hat he always wears, that he doesn't let anyone borrow/ or even touch! I thought it was so sweet, but I don't know what I should give him! Any ideas??
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IM SO PISSED.
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 11:30 pm
ok so i've had this boyfriend, M for 6 months today. and i just found out hes been going behind my back, and telling my friend A, stuff ive been saying about her.
it all started when i was mad at one of my friends and chewed him out, and he got upset and so A bitched me out about it, and that made me mad. so a few days later, i was on aim with M and one of my other friends, N. M, N and i were in a 3way chat. and A had logged on, and i was still mad at her. so i started bitching about her to M and N. and suddenly, A started bitching me out about stuff. and by the way she was yelling at me, it had sounded like she had heard what i was saying about her. so i asked N and M if they had told her anything, and they both said no. th...
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guy with the dimples
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 11:01 pm
ok so again i like this guy how can i let him know??any phrases i can use??
thanks!
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I'm scared to have oral sex with my boyfriend,
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:40 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and have not had any kind of sex. I am now getting more and more comfortable every time I hangout with him. We have been talking about having oral sex for awhile but im just soo nervous. How do I get passed my nerves? I need help! I have only done this once and I was drunk. He has had alot of experience and I havent had any. Maybe thats why im scared. I dont know I just need some serious help!
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My boyfriend..& My friend..
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:17 pm
I'm 16/f...I've been going out with this guy "Jeff" for 5 months now. He is so amazingly sweet and nice. There is one problem. We're totally different. He is goody goody and I'm emo/punk.He wishpers things in my ear all the time and just by the way he says it sounds like he is trying to get into my pants. He always says "your so sexy","your so gorgeous",& "sexy i love you"..He wont stop saying I love you until I say it back.I told him to stop saying it but he keeps on.I like another guy "Paul" who is my friend though. I know it's wrong but,I'm not going to lie I have feelings for him too.
What should I do??
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Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:10 pm
What do guys think of girls watching porn? is it a total turn off or on? or neither?
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love it or hate ?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:08 pm
wat should i do i dumped this guy i went out for five months n i dumped him...i dunno why but i didnt feel the same way !
he got angry... n i didnt care
i met a guy named peter n i kissed.. him.. he found out n the guy i dumped got angry..
2 days l8er he found a chick , i got jealous n now they seein each other..
i dunno wat 2 do no more bcuz everytime i see him i like him more...
n hear about him..
but i guess everythin wnt be the same..
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boy friend
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:04 pm
hi im sandra female and im 17 i just got a boyfriend today and how do i act near him or around him
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how do I know if my boyfriend wants to kiss me?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:03 pm
how do I know if my boyfriend wants to kiss me?
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Mixed Messages
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 9:38 pm
So i was hanging out with this guy whos my friend and we were sitting on the couch and i was on the edge. He picked up the guitar hero controller to get ready to play and i grabbed it from him trying to get it away and he laughed and said 'your not getting this away from me.' so i pulled harder and he grabbed my arm and said 'Hey wait your gonna fall! I can't let you fall cuase then i just won't be able to live with myself.' and he was still laughing but i mean thats still pretty flirty right? so then i was talkin to him that night and you see we both are kinda in relationships and my bf got mad at me. So my friend said 'he should trust you.' and i asked 'would you trust me?' and said 'i trust all my friends.' so i was like nyeh....what doe...
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hes just not that into you
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 6:11 pm
okay so im having an issue debating what to do. my bf who is older than me by 8 years has some serious issues with women. and we've only been together for 3 months and already hes not the same as the was in the beginning. and hes not giving me the treatment that i believe i deserve, or even the same great treatment i give him! not that he treats me bad but i know that when a man loves a woman (as he says he does), he shows her more attention and care and love than he shows me. now i know hes paranoid to show too much affection because of his past, but that's not really fair to me... and im trying to decide if hes distant because of his issues (which is what he told me) or because maybe hes just not that into me. i dont know which one it is ...
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insecure.
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 5:04 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years already. I do everything for him. If he needs a ride im there. If he needs money im there. We go out to eat on weekends he usually pays when I offer to. We see each other almost everything but not the whole day together. I do super nice things for him. For example when we go to his soccer game I pass by a gas station and buy him his favorite gatorade drink or or ill help him wit homework or stuff like that. I feel like I go above and beyond for him. But on the other hand he doesn't do anything like that for. For example. I took my brother and his sister to a community college to take a placemment test, it takes 2 hours to finish. I ask him if he could pick me up so I wouldn't be alone. He ...
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the absolute wrong person for me and i know it.
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 3:11 pm
right ill make this real quick. there's been 2 girls iv liked and maybe even loved alot in the past 2 years the first one did me no good at all, completly ignored me and basically does not give a shit and i want to hate her but i still like her... the other girl is my best friend who i think iv recently started liking again, shes really really and every now and then i fall in and out of love with her but only because i know it wouldnt work and for this simple fact that she is a sex-a-holic and i wouldnt be able to trust her at all, i man for gods sake who cheats on everyboy friend they'v ever had??? ill admit that she cheated on her last bf with me and i felt so guilty that i had to tell her not to see me anymore untill we had gone off each...
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how do i take a step foward
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 12:17 pm
female,14
ok so i saw this guy that i thought was cute.he asked for my name.we see each other every day and i can tell he wants to reach out to me..i keep dreamng about him. how can i just make the first move without suprising him or getting rejected?Hes kind of quiet so something kind of calm too.
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another questionn
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:47 am
heyy its me again =/ haha the girl with the ex bf problems. i hope you remember me.
so yeah one of my friends that's friends with him and me is having a little get-together thing at her house in a few days and she invited him. this is my first like long-term relationship ex-boyfriend so i don't really know how to play it. i want him to know that i still love him and want him back without acting clingy and stuff it's gonna be all our friends hanging out so i just want to have a good time and hope something happens between us. so my questions are what should i do to let him know i still love him and want to be with him without being all clingy and stuff and should i hug him when i get there? i know i'm gonna be the same girl i ...
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is he just using me for sex?
Posted Wednesday June 17 2009, 10:20 am
I really really like this guy and ive never liked someone as much as i like him. Hes really sweet to me but much more experienced. He tells me all the time thats its cool that im a virgin that i should keep it and that hes not going to try to have sex with me. When we are kissing and he thinks it might go to far he just stops for awhile to cool off. He even checks to make sure im ok when doing just the little things. But im very confused one of my best guy friends hates him and tells me all the time that hes just going to use me for sex and then leave. The other night i was talking to one of my friends and one of his best friends and then he tells me that he thinks hes going to use me for sex because hes been having sex with girls and then ...
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This is ridiculous...minor-envy??
Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 8:51 pm
Okay...21f, he's 23m. I'm just looking for some insight, here.
I just graduated college. My studies led me to realize that my real career lies in counseling. So, I'm planning to go back to my school and do a post-bacc in psychology and sociology, then do a counseling M.A.
My boyfriend has recently decided that he wants to do the same. Except he can postpone his graduation and do a minor...and his parents will pay for it, provided there's an "-ology" at the end of his degree, and he actually will be able to say he has a minor in psychology. I won't.
My parents can't help me pay for my classes, and I can't get a job that will, either, yet...but I'm working on it.
So here's the problem:
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my parents want me to date a guy with the same religion as me...
Posted Tuesday June 16 2009, 7:33 pm
Alrightie then...Im 15 years old and am currently dating a very sweet 16 year old boy whom I love with my whole heart! We have been dating for 6 months and he is truly the first love of my life. But unfortunatley he is a Buddhist and I am a Christian. My parents want me to marry a Christian man. They have asked me what religion he is, and when they do I simply bring up the fact that he is in a Christian rock band called Shy of Divinity (www.shyofdivinity.com) So I guess they just Assumed he was a Christian. I have a feeling that sooner or later Im going to have to tell them the that he is a Buddhist. How am I going to break it to them, and when is a good time???
~thanx for the help~
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