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Romeo


Question Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 12:12 am

Female/Age16
My boyfriend is the sweetest thing! The only problem is a lot of the time, I have to make the decisions/suggestions on romantic things like where to go or what to do (example: dinner and a movie, beach, walk, ect.) I don't mind it sometimes but I don't want to make every single decision you know. I love him so much but I don't want to tell him straight up that I want him to make decisions/suggestions sometimes. How else can I tell him?


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LM answered Friday June 19 2009, 12:25 pm:
Haha, I could have asked your question!


You've got to be honest. Tell him that you want him to surprise you and plan a nice day for the two of you. You can't drop hints with guys... it doesn't work. At all. Trust me. =)


-LM
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Cux answered Thursday June 18 2009, 10:56 am:
Relationships are based on communication.

If you can't "straight up" tell your boyfriend you want him to make decisions about what to do when you hang out, then there's a problem.

I don't know why you can't. If he cares about you, he won't get mad. And honestly, it's nothing to get mad over.

But, I guess you could do the "You choose!" or "You decide!" things if all else fails.

--Jack
(17/m)

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thementor answered Thursday June 18 2009, 6:10 am:
just say you want him to suprise you.
just say you choose.

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ellyduckie answered Thursday June 18 2009, 6:10 am:
sometimes guys are like this they just dont know when to take the initiative to do something romantic or out of the blue but they dont mean it, its simply being a guy you know.
what i suggest id that you text him sayin hey huny you wanna do something fun this weeknd, il leave it up to you, or say you decide, or just tell him straight out if he loves you he aint gona mind

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