I'm a lot different than the group of friends I hang out with the most. I'm more street smart/creative/artistic while they're mainly all about education (this is only about some of them, not all of them). Because of this, I tend to get treated as the "outcast" in the group and in all honesty, I feel like I'm not even treated like a friend. I like who I am and I don't plan to change myself for anyone. I just want to be treated like a real friend, what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? kiran answered Thursday June 18 2009, 9:19 pm: Well I think you should talk to them. If they realize what they are doing and decide to let you back in, then your fine. But if they decide, whatever, you need new friends. Some that will treat you better. Everybody is different but you should still be treated fairly even though you aren't like everybody in your group. As long as you treat them right, then they shouldn't have a problem. It could be another problem why they are treating you like this. I wouldn't know. Just talk to them and see what happens. If it doesn't change, go find some friends that appreciate you. Good luck! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
JustJessOx answered Thursday June 18 2009, 9:42 am: Hey there =]
from what youve said it looks like you need to find a new group of friends,ones that will aprciate you and possibly have some of the same interests as you,try talking to different people in school/college I know it can be a bit indimiditating but trust me youl find youl make them quickly =]
maybe join some groups or clubs to get to know different people if there are any around?
way to go for staying true to yourself and not changing most people try to sucome to a label to fit in.
you should feel proud of yourself,
hope I helped some what!
good luck =]
much <3
Jess [15/f] [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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