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Member Since: June 16, 2009
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Last Update: June 28, 2009
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hi, well today suddenly the days are shorter and its gon a hell of a lot colder, infact i was wearing my jacket inside! so anyway, my cockatiel was sittin on the floor, fluffed up with its head tucked under his wing. is this because of the temperature change or is he ill? please help, im really not sure, thanks in advance. (link)
he might be ill take him to the vet for a check up


Female/Age16
My boyfriend is the sweetest thing! The only problem is a lot of the time, I have to make the decisions/suggestions on romantic things like where to go or what to do (example: dinner and a movie, beach, walk, ect.) I don't mind it sometimes but I don't want to make every single decision you know. I love him so much but I don't want to tell him straight up that I want him to make decisions/suggestions sometimes. How else can I tell him? (link)
just say you want him to suprise you.
just say you choose.


I am going to college next year at a very expensive school. What are some ways to make that sort of money fast?

Tell me what I can do, what I will make, and how hard I will have to work for it.

And anything goes here, legal, illegal, immoral. I probably won't go the illegal route, but the information would come in handy.

18/m (link)
take a trade selling houses in real a state


I am always feeling down and blue but I'm always hyper and naturally funny. I neve stop talking. But inside I hate myself and wish I was either dead or someone else.

I cut myself on average twice a month when things get ontop of me

I feel like I have no identity but whenever I ask for help the people around me are so wrapped up in themselves and say stuff like "that's a shame" and my sis just says "yeah well get over it"

I am so stressed and noone cares life is all crap and I might as well just sleep forever

P.S I'm not gonna kill myself so persuasion is not needed

Any advice ? (link)
you might need help hit me on my email
khalilhardy56@yahoo.com


Ok I totally need some advice fast. Tomorrow I've been invited by my friend and few others to hang out after school. First of all I never had any REAL TRUE friends before so this kind of thing makes me happy to see that I'm finally hanging out with some people who accept me. Anyways my mom said I can't because she doesn't know them and I'm 16. I'm like WTF? All we are gonna do is hang out near a pond (I'm assuming it must be some kind of park) and do random stuff like play yugioh (yes major LOL). I am totally pissed right now. I don't know why, they are my friends, I know how they are but my mom is like everyone has a bad side. I don't want to believe that, they are my friends! Plus I really think this is a good way for me to get out more. A while ago after my check-up with the doctor, she said that I'm prone to diabetes. I can avoid that if I go out more which I'm hoping to do tomorrow with my friends. So should I go with them anyways or maybe stay pissed and just head home? (link)
you have to listen to your mom even though you think it is not fair i went through situations like that,and if they really are good friends they will understand. try to reason with her let her meet your friends.


I have liked girls since like I was 8. I told my mom and now it jus tore us apart. I'm scared to tell my dad because he hates homosexuals! And like I don't know. I'm scared about me and my moms realationship. And I dont know what to do (link)
maybe something in your life happend when you was 8 or younger to make you feel like you
like girls i will pray for and your family,you need to speak to a preist or a pastor.


does masturbauting give you more pimples/acne? (link)
none


Alright, I'm a new member here so this will be my "first" post.. My name is Chase, 13 and am in 8th grade.. I'm kinda curious about a couple of things, and how I should handle them..

I really like this one girl, we started talking for the first time back in March or so.. I thought things were going well for a while, I knew she didn't have feelings for me like I had for her, but I was fine w/ that..

A few months later it seemed that she started liking me, throughout the summer during school break we're talking pretty often and I thought things were going quite well..

Around a month ago, shortly before school started, her friends (which were busy doing other stuff during summer) started hanging out w/ her again. Which I was fine with, 'cause I knew she hadn't seem them much, and then now that school has started, she decided to date this one guy and hangs out w/ all her friends, and it seems a bit "different" when talking to me..

Mind you, we both go to seperate schools..

Any idea what I should do? Perhaps just give it a break and let her spend time w/ this new boyfriend as well as her friends?

Thanks in Advance!
Chase (link)
chase your problem was the same as mine i talked it over w/ my mentor when i had the problem.So im going to tell you the same thing he told me.
chase you should let her go for now cause being that you let a year go past and you never ask her out...your not really ready for a relationship until you accomplish that,chase.


Age16/Female
I've been with my boyfriend for a little over four months and although it's a short time, I'm so in love and he says he's in love with me too. We live a half hour away from each other but we always see each other on weekends and now that summer's here, we'll see each other more :)

We haven't had sex but everytime we hang out, we always end up making out and doing other stuff on my bed. We've been talking about sex lately and we both feel ready and responsible enough. Big problem though: my mom is always home and we have no where else to go where we could be alone, well we can't think of anywhere anyway. Help please! (link)
first of all you are too young to be talking about sex in the first place.Sur you love him very much and so does he,but dont get to close like that your are only 16 years old.


I just want a second opinion on this.

I'm about to go off to college, so I am trying to not get too attached to my boyfriend of 2 months whom I will inevitably have to break up with some time soon. Anyways, we fool around a lot and sometimes he sticks his penis like halfway inside of me, and he doesn't move it, and I don't let it go in all the way. I still consider myself a virgin, because I think that sex is more physically and emotionally than having a penis half way inside of you. I don't consider what we do to be sex. And I still consider myself a virgin, even though he accidentally popped my cherry once by fingering me. Does anyone agree or disagree?

I just don't think I'm ready to be not a virgin, or to have sex with him, given I won't be able to be with him much longer. (link)
if you love him and he loves you,go ahead and
get married and have kids.But from what i read
you probably will not marry him ,and by the way he is too fast and i guess you dont want a man like that,so go and do what is right!


ok so i am basically getting bored of the songs on my mp4 player and i cant find any other good ones so what are some good songs that i can listen to while walking my dog or walking home
thanks
btw i dont really like rap songs so preferably not them and my favourite types of songs are rock, metal and stuff like that
thanks again haha (link)
find out the newest rock songs im not really a
rock song fan,so thats all i can give you




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