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Unfair mom >:(
Ok I totally need some advice fast. Tomorrow I've been invited by my friend and few others to hang out after school. First of all I never had any REAL TRUE friends before so this kind of thing makes me happy to see that I'm finally hanging out with some people who accept me. Anyways my mom said I can't because she doesn't know them and I'm 16. I'm like WTF? All we are gonna do is hang out near a pond (I'm assuming it must be some kind of park) and do random stuff like play yugioh (yes major LOL). I am totally pissed right now. I don't know why, they are my friends, I know how they are but my mom is like everyone has a bad side. I don't want to believe that, they are my friends! Plus I really think this is a good way for me to get out more. A while ago after my check-up with the doctor, she said that I'm prone to diabetes. I can avoid that if I go out more which I'm hoping to do tomorrow with my friends. So should I go with them anyways or maybe stay pissed and just head home?
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you have to listen to your mom even though you think it is not fair i went through situations like that,and if they really are good friends they will understand. try to reason with her let her meet your friends.
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Talk to your mother. Why not have them over your house before you go out so your mother could meet them. Going out like that with out permission is just going to upset and worry your mother. The she wont trust you and she will most likely thing your new friends pressured you into it or something like that. If they dont want to meet your mother, they arn't friends.
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You may not like my answer, but talk to your mom. Don't give an attitude and yell and scream, b/c then your acting immature. Talk to her on an adult level, explain exactly what you said in your question, how they are your real friends, and how you need to go out more b/c your prone to diabetes. Take it from me, the whole whining thing doesn't work, b/c your mom will never take you seriously, but if you are paitent and try to understand things from her point of view, her answer just might surprise you. Don't disobey, and don't waste time being pissed, life is way to short b/c every minute you waste sad or angry is one minute of happiness you can never get back. Think about it.
Best of luck, keep me posted :)
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