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Is it normal?
15/f
Might be long...
Ok so my parents split up about 3 years ago. My mother got together with this other man about 2 years ago or maybe more. Ever since they have gotten together my mom has changed alot. i mean alot. she acts different around me and my two younger brothers. she has becomed im ashamed of saying it but a pervert. she will make out with my stepdad in front of us and be all sexual talk wtih him. i mean i would never be sexually talking to a boyfriend in front of her! thats really akward. and they act like its normal for them to be touching all upon eachother in fron of me and my brothers. i try to discuss with them but they just ignore me. it really bothers me and it kind of effects my brothers also. they tell the whole world that my mom will be having intercourse with my stepdad in front of them.
is this normal or not?
because to me it really isnt.
advice on how to discuss it with them is needed.
thanks
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no it is not normal what she is doing and my mother is the same way except worse she let her boyfried hit me and "try" to hug up and kiss on me and i wasn't having it.. i moved in with my father and haven't been happier.. i cry time to time i haven't talked to my mother since beginging of july that's the last time she tried to talk to me.. she choose her new husband over her family.. maybe you and your brother should go stay with your father. it might be safe and healthy for you guys to not be over there.
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No it isn't normal they are doing this in
front of you. A kiss or hug is one thing
but talking about or doing sexual things
in front of you is really not at all
necessary.
Talk to them about it. Do not wait until
they are going at it. They won't listen
then.
Just tell mom you find it embarrassing and inappropriate. Tell her you are happy they
are so in love, but that you really don't
want to know about their sex life. You might
also let her know that your brothers find it something to gossip about.
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