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My boyfriend..& My friend..
I'm 16/f...I've been going out with this guy "Jeff" for 5 months now. He is so amazingly sweet and nice. There is one problem. We're totally different. He is goody goody and I'm emo/punk.He wishpers things in my ear all the time and just by the way he says it sounds like he is trying to get into my pants. He always says "your so sexy","your so gorgeous",& "sexy i love you"..He wont stop saying I love you until I say it back.I told him to stop saying it but he keeps on.I like another guy "Paul" who is my friend though. I know it's wrong but,I'm not going to lie I have feelings for him too.
What should I do??
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Well the first thing is that if you told him to stop he should respect your feelings and stop. Just let him know that you don't want to say it back. If he doesn't stop just back away or something. Make it clear you don't want him to do that all the time. I think you should also tell you bf that you have small feelings for another guy. It will hurt him in the end if he finds out later. If you are going to go after this other guy then you need to make sure he has same feelings for you, cause if he doesn't, then you just can't have him and you'll lose the old guy you had and you won't have the other one either. If you still like this guy and nothing is wrong with him besides the whole whispering thing, you might want to be careful for your feelings or else you might lose him when you don't want to. If you don't want the other guy and just have feelings for him then just tell your bf that you have feelings for this other guy but they will pass soon. Good luck!
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Be straight out with him. The more time you're with him and you do this...the more you're going to hurt him in the end. Just tell him that you don't think of him like a boyfriend anymore and that you have feelings for someone else. If he truly cares about you, he would be okay (though he might be upset at first) and he'd be your friend. But whatever you do, don't keep being with him if you don't feel anything towards him.
Good Luck & Hoped I Helped
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE<3
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