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I'm In Love With My Best Friend! Please Help!


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:00 pm

Okay. So I have liked this guy that goes to my school for a few months now. Over these past few months he and I have become really close friends, and during this time I also realized I liked him a lot. All of our friends agree the feeling is mutual. I have reason to believe he likes me, too. We talk to each other every single day without fail, we write notes to each other, he tells me he has dreams about me, we talk about our "future" together, etc. He also told my best friend that he liked me. The main problem is that he is extremely shy when it comes to romance, and I do not want to scare him off and wreck our friendship. But I need to do something soon because I'm losing sleep over this and all of our friends are sick of us hol...

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houdini act


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 3:59 pm

I've never been dumped. I know weird thing to complain about but i dont understnad it, i'm not the emotional crying or overdramatic type ... but somehow all of my relationships have ended with a dissappearing acts with the few exceptions of the mutual agreement ones. When did dragging it out like that become better tahn a clean cut? and it is always sort of abrupt. we would make plans, then i'd never hear from them again. Is it me or am i just lucky?

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Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 3:59 pm

i AM a very shy person, and so i like this guy but i dont no if he likes me, he stares at me sometimes, but i dont no if he likes me or not. i dont no wat to do, i dont want to admit my fealings for him cause it jsut so hapends everytime i open up i always get hurt, (which means no, they dont like me) or something like that and i dont want to get hurt again. so wat do i do? please help lilly
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My first kiss... typical question


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 2:20 pm

So I'm 15/f and I have my first boyfriend. We've been going out for about two weeks and I haven't kissed him yet, and neither of us have ever kissed anybody before. I'm pretty nervous, and I'm sure that he is, too, but I'm going over his house in a few days and we're going to be alone, so that will probably be a good time to get my first kiss, and for him to get his. I really don't want to screw anything up, so does anyone have any advice on how to go about this? Thanks so much, I really appreciate it :)


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Boyfriend is mad at me because i hung out with my friends?


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 12:15 pm

I'm 15/f and he's 17/m. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. I love it when we are together, but he like never leaves me alone. He always ditches his friends for me, then holds it against me. Its really annoying. And then last night he came over at 8 and I'm like oh well I'm going to see transformers at midnight because a bunch of my girlfriends invited me and he was like oh. cool. but i could tell he was really pissed. He like wouldn't talk to me and was just nodding or going yep and he barely even gave me a kiss goodbye.It was like the shortest kiss ever. I don't know why he was mad at me! me and my girls made the plans before he asked to hang out, and i couldn't invite him to hang out with me and 5 of my best girlf...

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akwardness


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:34 am

13/m
ok so whenever i go out with a girl its all good for a few weeks then i just start not being able to think of things to say cause normally when i'm around her and before we were going out i always said random things to make her smile and laugh and other stuff that just made good conversations but now all i can think of saying is about this guy who i am absolutely sure he likes her its quite funny but it sucks cause i get jealous when he talks to her but he's an annoying rich kid who just be's a dick head(sorry 4 the language) to me and other people like this asian guy in our class and just stuff that has made me start to hold a grudge against him, thats kinda getting off track but what are some things, just anything that i can s...

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I think I flirt too much


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:18 am

I have only one guy im truely interested in BUT theses a list of guys that I talk to all the time. and some times we talk in ways we probably shouldn't. I want to focus on this one guy and only him but it's hard I've been single practically all of my life just because of the fact that Im naturally a really big flirt. but now im ready to make a commitment to some one and Im having a hard time breaking a bad old habit...FLIRTING!

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I made a huge mistake and now Im lost!


Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 3:35 am

Im a fifteen year old girl who just got caught from being on the run with my best freind. While I was on the run I met this guy. He's amazing, and so sweet, I feel like I need him! But He lives by where I used to live (with my dad) and now Im with my mom like an hour away. I have no way to talk to him! The day I got caught by the cops I was supposed to go back to his house later that night but I couldnt and I havent talked to him since I got caught! I want to see/talk to him so bad! I miss him and cant get him out of my mind. I think I found my first love! It hurts so bad, please dont give me advice to forget about him cause I CANT do it! What should I do. Im seriously thinking about going on the run again just so I can see him.

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What are some date ideas?


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:51 pm

My boyfriend and I will be going to hang out together tomorrow. I don't know what to do for entertainment or anything though. I really hate awkward moments and silences so we need to be doing SOMETHING so our date doesn't just die off. Any ideas?

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boyfriend


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:10 pm

18/f.
my boyfriend is a singer and he is kinda sorta really big and famous. i mean not like all american rejects or something, he isn't on any radio stations or anything (yet!) but hes pretty good & well known i would say. hes kind of as big as the maine.. kind of, getting there. ANYWAY. i've been touring with him for a few days now & its been a lot of fun. at the end of his show, i keep finding myself jealous. i knew i would be like this, but i can't help it. all these girls that talk to him & stuff. i just get really jealous. we just started dating again recently because before me like when he was in high school he went through a really bad relationship. it bothers me that he still writes songs about her. their not like...

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sad. :(


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 10:45 am

16/f
Well me and this guy "nate" went out for 3 months. I had a really good relationship but we had some bumps along the way. He was the first guy i fell in love with. The problem was he kept lying and keeping things from me so i broke up with him about a month and a half ago. After we broke up i tried being his friend. It didnt work because he got a new girlfriend and was showing everyone pictures of her in front of me and it really made me sad. He still tried to be my friend because he said he didnt like his new girlfriend and he still loved me.

So, of course we fought and we both said some really mean things to eachother. He was acting immature at school and acted like he didnt care about me but then he w...

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the cops!!


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 4:20 am

ok. So tonight it was like 11:35 and my bf and I were making out in his car at a park. We are both 18. All of a sudden a cop comes up to the window, and to make a long story short, took our IDs and then gave them back after going to her at for like 5 minutes and then told us to leave the park. R the cops going to contact our parents?? I will be DEAD if they do.

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my perfect guy!


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 1:45 am

i finally found my perfect guy. we are compatible mentally, sexually, physically, any way really. there's one problem though- his mother hates me.
she'll talk about other girls around him, or try to hook him up with other girls. she thinks i'm not mature enough for him since i'm a bit younger than he is. What can i say to her to make her see that i am actually mature enough for her son?

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my ex


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 1:13 am

me and my ex boyfriend lets call him (Y) were such good friends and then all of a sudden he asked me to date him. I said yes for some odd reason, and we dated for about two weeks. kinda weird, but i think i kind of used him to go out and party and just have a good time. and also his really good friend was my boyfriend before him and it was fun for all of us to hang out. But i felt bad for kind of using him so i broke up with him. He's 17 and im 14. and he was heartbroken and he was saying things like "i fell in love with you" and you were mi vida(my life). and just things like that but i just would apologize and say things like im sorry i just cant. and i started to talk to my current boyfriend(falling in LOVE) and (Y) started to ...

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single/ hott/ new


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:47 am

17/f
so i recently moved to australia from south africa, im asian though. lol. well, im single! i've been in aus. for about 5 months now, and back in south africa people would just jump to get to know me and possibly date me! what's happening.. i know it could probably because of different people, like here and back there.. but what can i do so people know im available and interested BUT not a whore that just wants to find boys to have sex with. im into serious long relationships and thats what im looking for.. im not exactly searching, i just want a guy to be there for me to talk to and be intimate with. the guys i know are so unbelievably immature!
and when i look around at public places, NO ONE is checking me out or anythin...

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boyfriend <3


Posted Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:35 am

well me and my boyfriend are very happy and falling in love, but I haven't seen him in a month and its so hard! what are some things I can do to get him off my mind? besides phone calls and texting him. because it makes me miss him more.

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he's amazing


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 9:58 pm

so there's this guy he is pretty much amazing
we are really close friends.
he's been gone for a month and just came back today and i was acting pretty shy, it wasnt really obvious but like when i would lift my glass, because he was there, i would be shaking really quickly. and before he got there and before i knew he was like 20 minutes i was fine. i dont know its just weird. and i really like him. well pretty of girls like him i'm sure. and i get jealous when i think about girls that i know like him. what should i do. like i definitely can't talk to him about it because he would just tell his whole family which i'm close to and he has a really big family and they are really close and i just cant tell him but can you give me some advice on this please.

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this boy rite here! [[its pretty long]]


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 7:51 pm

so there is this boy jordan who i really like. he's a really good friend. I dont really know if he likes me but he be flirting with me alot and he will just stare at me for along time. I will ask him what and he will just shrug. and when we walk by each other we smile at each other all the time. One time while we was eating lunch he was just messing and flirting with me and i thought in my head omg he likes me and then my this other girl was like tiffany he likes you and i was like i know to her. but then he be talking about girls alot but he usually just be lying about the girls because his sister be telling me he's lieing. but he has family that live in canada and there's this girl there and i think he likes her because this guy ask if t...

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a girl different from the rest


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:32 pm

I really care for this girl, I love her. we text or r with each other from the time we get out a school till we go to sleep, and its not like average talking, its pretty deep we get in each others heads, know how each others thinking. I can tell her anything n she can tell me almost everything but she’s had an extremely hard life she wants to tell me but she already told me a lot n thinks its better if I don’t know the rest right now n I’m perfectly fine with that. We trust each other. I can’t imagine how my life was without her, I’ve only known her for about a week though but we both say it feels like our whole life. She’s such a strong girl for her situation I know id be going insane. Every time she starts to love or trust a r...

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i think he hates me


Posted Monday June 22 2009, 6:30 pm

Hey, my ex-boyfriend recently came back into town about 2 weeks ago and he will usually let me know when he is in town. This time he did'nt even call me or bother to stop by and see me.
I did'nt even know he was here until one of my friends said he came to hang out with them. I was just wondering, do you think he hates me or do you know why he doesnt want me to know he is in town?

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