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I think I flirt too much
I have only one guy im truely interested in BUT theses a list of guys that I talk to all the time. and some times we talk in ways we probably shouldn't. I want to focus on this one guy and only him but it's hard I've been single practically all of my life just because of the fact that Im naturally a really big flirt. but now im ready to make a commitment to some one and Im having a hard time breaking a bad old habit...FLIRTING!
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i know how you feel, i used to be a big flirt
tooo, all you have to do is just remind yourself
im really interested in this guy i don't want to
loose him over something i know i can control.
and when you talk to other guys you can ethier
be like; well i have a boyfriend im sorry or you
can flirt a little bit but, just keep in mind
that you don't want to lose the guy your interested
in and if he's really worth it the other guys
probally aren't even that great if you think
about it if your interested in him just commit
to him and you can be a flirt a little and all
that but just don't go over the edge as in you
know like talking about hooking up and stuff you
know just keep it at a limit that you know you
can still be commited to the one you want to be
with and have a little fun at the same time.
hope i've helped.
- toriiiiiii.
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You can talk to other guys and even flirt a little while being in a commited relationship. Don't take it to far (if you feel yourself being turned on or attracted more than usual to the person, tone it down) and make sure these guys know you have a boyfriend. It seems like when someone has a partner they become more of a target. People want what they can't have and it might just make the flirting from others more intese. Or if you have the "I want to have my cake and eat it too" ideal then it might be hard for you.
You can still have fun conversations, just don't use too much ineuendos or get touchy with the other person. If you get distracted, remind yourself you are in a commited relationship and think of why you like him so much. Send him a text just to bring him into the situation and prevent temptation. You could even tell the other guy "hold on, I have to call my boyfriend."
If you really want to commit, you shouldn't have to worry about the flirting. It will come naturally if you really like this guy.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Well you shouldn't stop talking to the other guy's you should simmer down the teasing and flirting around because the only one guy you'll be interested thing wouldn't really look much into you, because he thinks your just flirting and wouldn't take it seriously. Just slowly let go of the habit even if it kill's you in the long run let's look at it this way you'll be flirting all the time with your beloved lover.
Hope I helped -xoxo.
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