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Hey my name is Carolina. I would love to major in Psychology i LOVE helping people and i like people helping me, I'm a great listener. I love dancing hip-hop that's my passion and I like too draw when i need to Release my emotion's. I love meeting new people! & i would love to be a help for you.
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ok so all day i've been getting calls and texts from people saying i texted them and stuff. The numbers that im getting texted and called from are no where near the number that i was trying to text... like even a different area code and in my sent box it says that i sent it to the number that i wanted it to go to. I sometimes send pretty personal texts and it's not cool that other people are getting them. Is there any way to make this stop? ps i have verizon and my phone is the env2 if that makes any difference. (link)
Hmm.. I would be pretty pissed off if that happened to me, call customer service and they can re-boot it and they'll fix the issue, it work's they fix my problems.

hope i helped -xoxo.


how do i connect my ipod to my car so it can play (link)
There suppose to be this cassete with a long string that has a headphone look a like thing in the end of it, you can purchase it anywhere ask for a place with electronics. and you put it in the casette area and you plug the headphone part to the ipod and there! you got your music!


so me and my friend are legit biffs like we cant go a day with out talking and all and im really getting feelings for him. i know i am going to tell him my feelings but i am leaving for vacation for 10 days and he said that he will be calling me alot. (he even said the alot pasrt) and he wants to go the the movies when i come back. the thing is im worried that if i tell him before all of this happens then all of this will disappear and never happen. so should i wait till after the movies which is the last thing? i want to tell him at perfect timing. when is that?? thanks in advance! (link)
AH, my best friend liked me and guess what?
NOW WERE DATING! lol.
It was funny and romantic cause i gained feeling the same way too, but he was the first to admit it i was too shy but like is they're chemistry between you guys? Does he flirt with you? He must like you, if he tells you he wants to talk to you all the time and you guys are inseperable.
Wait for the movies girl, they're no rush and see if something happen's if he makes a move and if he doesn't maybe he's too shy and just like say it playing around like "Oh how would you react if we both ended up dating, like can you imagine us" and see how he respond's so no feeling's would get hurt and maybe after he'll say how he feels. TRUST ME! Best friend's always have that cute love romance bond in the end.

But, think about it too? Is it worth ruining the friendship? Remember it won't be the same after take it from experience when me and him broke up once, it was awkward afterword's.
It's tough and risky! But i would love to hear how it end's hope i helped.
like i said before, I would love to hear from you after!


Is there anything I can do to lighten my skin? I have a "farmer's tan".

If you don't know what a farmer's tan is, click here to see:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/8/86/Male_torso.jpg/200px-Male_torso.jpg

I hate being tan, so I'd rather lighten the tanned part than try to tan the rest of me.
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As funny as it sound's you can also put lemon all over the area for 5 minutes and it'll lighten up TRUST ME it works.
Or the longer process which is Time, that's it.
I HAVE A FARMERS TAN TOO! lol.
I hate it, BUT I just tanned it off! :D


The back half of my vagina itches, its seems to be on the inside-ish. I shave down there so my thought is that its chaffing (i hadn't shaved in awhile- so maybe it was caused by that). It doesn't really itch when im like lying down, its just when im walking/ moving.

Any ideas what this is (or if its just chaffing) and how i can fix it?

Thanks so much. (link)
It's just chaffing your not use to it wait for it to adapt, the first time that ever happend to me i was in the same situation or you can try to put Vagisil if that's the case which would help out too!

Hope i helped!


I'm 15 and I raise guppies for fun in a large aquarium. Guppies multiply quickly! I have been giving most of them away to a local petstore with the help of my parents. The last time I was at the store I noticed that there were very few fish... and not much business... I became fairly certain that the majority of the fish were dying. My parents either did not notice or do not care, and want me to contimue giving my fish to this store. Furthurmore, I do not know of another store who will take the extra fish. Raising guppies has been a fun hobby and I don't want to stop, but I don't know what to do... I don't want to keep handing over fish to be killed in a poor aquarium enviroment. Any advice would be appreciated! (link)
The advice i can give you look for pet store's in the yellow pages & ask them if they make service they're and the honest truth that you don't appreciate the fact that you think the other store is letting the guppies die due to it's bad service and check the store out.

you can also try to google it, and check it out.
BUT, stop giving it to a place where they won't be treated right.

Along time ago, that happened to me i gave my puppy to a pound because it was spreading ticks and flees all over my house and my mom did it behind my back when i went to school and they told me they'll try to get it to get adopted only finding out that they gave it that injection to put it to sleep, i cried so much when i found out. So be extra careful. Animal cruelty is the worst thing that can occur :(


I'm sixteen. This guy and I have been talking. He happens to be a player who thinks I'm some bad girl.lol I actually happen to be a very very good girl. We hung out, and he thought he was going to get some but that didn't happen, so he started acting like an ass hole to me around his friends and my friends. I decided that i'm going to do my best to stop thinking about him in that more than a friend way, but teach him a lesson while i'm at it. For example, he called to apologise, and i told him how i felt about what he did being messed up, and then telling him i had to go. Basically now, everytime he talks we talk for a second, literally, because i've been getting him off the phone quick with all kinds of excuses. This has all worked so well :D lol....because now he is constantly calling and texting me, but i'm still giving him the same treatment, which has got him all crazy because of the way he naggs. So, he asked me a question before I hung up today "do you still like me", and i told him I had to leave. Then he said "when can i call you". then i told him in two hours, and then he said "why not 20 minutes", and i told him, 2 HOURS. that was it...i'm stuck right now, because I want to keep him spinning,but i'm not sure if what i plan to say will work. I wanted to tell him "maybe" or "kind of".....but what do you guys think i shoudl have as a "mind game" answer. (link)
Well i suggest you keep him guessing like for example "what do you think? Do you think i ACTUALLY like YOU?" & see what he responds & you can tell him "after all does it matter, i don't think so?" For some reason, guy's like it when girls are like that you seem more frisky and challengeable or just don't answer it, make an escuse like you usually do and he's going to keep getting confused and crazy over you!

xoxo.


My mom is 38 years old now and she works at night. My mom usually gets home from work about 3am. I have been waking up for close to 2 months now probably because I hear voices coming from the living room. Well, for the past few weeks now I've been sneaking into the living room to check out who my mom has over or whatever so late. It appears that she is talking to herself though!

It looks like my mom is talking to someone right across from her. She is looking straight ahead and everything, every time I have seen her! The weird thing is that it's basically dark in there. There is enough light for me to see the figure of my mom decently (including where her gaze is projected) and know that there isn't anyone else in the living room. She usually speaks quietened down, a little lower than her regular voice--sometimes down to almost a whisper.

She's really starting to scare me though. I've asked her on multiple occasions now about her night chats. She has, time and time again, responded with, "What are you talking about?" She appears to have COMPLETELY forgotten about it.

Should I be worried? What should I do? (link)
I think she's repressing what she's doing in other words it's in the pre-conscious. She doesn't re-call for something that's traumatic. Maybe something occured that she doesn't recall and that's the way she tend's to react and she won't even remember that one as well.

I recommend she goes to a psychologist asap, so they can do some test's on her like psychoanalysis like they can hypnotize her and her feeling's that she can't re-call would appear from her pre-concious, it's really cool how they do this.

But, this is not normal.
She goes to a psychologist, and get therapy.


14/f

Alright my friend is really nice and al but she can bug me so much. Sometimes all she talks about is her other friend who is not @ our school. She calls her her BFF when she hardly see's her and i am standing right their!!! I mean we spend every minute of the day together and tell all our secrets with each other. It is almost like we are sisters. But all she can talk about sometimes is her friend emily. I dont know if i am jeleous or if she is trying to give me a hint??? IDK where our friendship stands. When someone asks who her bff is she says EMILY :( and im right their. And also i know Emily to and she said that she is not her BFF. So do i tell her that. ?

It just dosent make sense concidering we hang out 24/7 and they do maybey 1 or 2 times a week max. IS SHE MY FRIEND OR NOT???

Sincerely, MMR (link)
Well ask her do you consider me your best friend? It wouldn't hurt, you guys are allowed to have more than one BEST friend, tell her how you feel. Maybe it'll sweeten up the situation. Don't let it get to you, she might do it just to bother you.

-xoxo.


Im a fifteen year old girl who just got caught from being on the run with my best freind. While I was on the run I met this guy. He's amazing, and so sweet, I feel like I need him! But He lives by where I used to live (with my dad) and now Im with my mom like an hour away. I have no way to talk to him! The day I got caught by the cops I was supposed to go back to his house later that night but I couldnt and I havent talked to him since I got caught! I want to see/talk to him so bad! I miss him and cant get him out of my mind. I think I found my first love! It hurts so bad, please dont give me advice to forget about him cause I CANT do it! What should I do. Im seriously thinking about going on the run again just so I can see him. (link)
How long did you know this guy for? You just met him? What if when you really get to know his true color's he is not what you expect and then your stuck and there's no way out?

How about you just visit your dad instead and visit him? If anything tell your dad you would want to move in with him and maybe that would help and eventually you'll see him again?

Just....
DON'T RUN AWAY!


13/m
ok so whenever i go out with a girl its all good for a few weeks then i just start not being able to think of things to say cause normally when i'm around her and before we were going out i always said random things to make her smile and laugh and other stuff that just made good conversations but now all i can think of saying is about this guy who i am absolutely sure he likes her its quite funny but it sucks cause i get jealous when he talks to her but he's an annoying rich kid who just be's a dick head(sorry 4 the language) to me and other people like this asian guy in our class and just stuff that has made me start to hold a grudge against him, thats kinda getting off track but what are some things, just anything that i can say so its not as akward and i dont feel so stupid
thanks (link)
Relax, don't over analyze it. Be true to yourself only you can answer that question. If you look confident you can pull off anything - even if you have no clue what you're doing.

TIP:
You can mention the memories you guy's shared and how much fun you had, and how thrilling it was. Then she'll go along and you'll automatically have a conversation and then you'll know what to say from then on. Or open up, talk about yourself and your experiences :)

Hope i helped -xoxo.


I have only one guy im truely interested in BUT theses a list of guys that I talk to all the time. and some times we talk in ways we probably shouldn't. I want to focus on this one guy and only him but it's hard I've been single practically all of my life just because of the fact that Im naturally a really big flirt. but now im ready to make a commitment to some one and Im having a hard time breaking a bad old habit...FLIRTING! (link)
Well you shouldn't stop talking to the other guy's you should simmer down the teasing and flirting around because the only one guy you'll be interested thing wouldn't really look much into you, because he thinks your just flirting and wouldn't take it seriously. Just slowly let go of the habit even if it kill's you in the long run let's look at it this way you'll be flirting all the time with your beloved lover.

Hope I helped -xoxo.


So I've been "best friends" with this girl for about like 3 years now. She's SUPER clingy to me. She always needs to know where I am and who I'm with if I'm not hanging out with her. If I tell her I can't hang out with her, she'll ask why, who are you with? Anyways, she and I and another girl are all BFF's. But this girl who's super clingy, let's call her Jane. She's always talking crap about the other girl,(let's call her Sara). Jane always vents to me about Sara and how much she hates her, and yet Jane is so nice, but it's all fake to Sara's face. And Sara and I are closer, so I tell Sara what Jane says about her.

As of right now, I don't want to hang out with Jane anymore. She tells me that she hates all the people in the group that we hang out with and she can't stand any of them. She's ALWAYS fake with them if she sees them, and she's always clinging onto me. I'm so sick of her crap. She brings drama to my life. And she's so dramatic, it's sick. I mean, I don't want to be mean and delete her out of my life. But what should I do?

The thing is, if I sit down and talk to her about it, she'll be like "oh i'm sorry." And then she'll talk behind my back with someone else. Which I know she does.

What should I do? (link)
Best friend's? No, a best friend doesn't do that! Has she been like that all the 3 years? If not, she's jealous since you've gotten closer to your other friends. You don't need to put up w anything that include's drama or someone who is fake and a hypocrit. Be upfront about it, if she talks crap? Who cares, you shouldn't care what people say about you. You have plenty of best friends, you'll live and if you do really care what she says about you just slowly grow apart from her and then after keep a distance. It might hurt, but it happen's. Then eventually you'll notice how your life would be at ease and relaxing.




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