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I made a huge mistake and now Im lost!
Im a fifteen year old girl who just got caught from being on the run with my best freind. While I was on the run I met this guy. He's amazing, and so sweet, I feel like I need him! But He lives by where I used to live (with my dad) and now Im with my mom like an hour away. I have no way to talk to him! The day I got caught by the cops I was supposed to go back to his house later that night but I couldnt and I havent talked to him since I got caught! I want to see/talk to him so bad! I miss him and cant get him out of my mind. I think I found my first love! It hurts so bad, please dont give me advice to forget about him cause I CANT do it! What should I do. Im seriously thinking about going on the run again just so I can see him.
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You should really talk to your mom about it, Im sure she would understand. Try not to tell her you think you love him, because that might scare her haha. Just tell her everything you told advicenators in your message. Remember to stay calm, and have a civil conversation with her, if shes going to take the time to listen to you, let her talk and listen to her. There is no need to runaway, you will just get in more trouble and then never get to see him. Maybe even taking some time to visit your dad would be a good idea. Also, you should get his phone number or email next time you see him, this way you can stay in contact.
Just be careful, im not saying the kid is bad, and im not sure how long you have known him, but he could be someone different than as you see him right now.
Communicaation is the best way to help your situation, talk to your mom, talk to your dad and listen to them, see what they have to say. Im sure everything will work out for you! Let me know how it goes! If you have any other questions, or need more advice, you can always ask me on my advice column: xosodapopx3
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parents will trust you until you do something for them not to trust you anymore, running away was a bad decision, I think you realize that, but running away again is even worse, and will show your parents you really cannot be trusted. work with them, not against them.
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How long did you know this guy for? You just met him? What if when you really get to know his true color's he is not what you expect and then your stuck and there's no way out?
How about you just visit your dad instead and visit him? If anything tell your dad you would want to move in with him and maybe that would help and eventually you'll see him again?
Just....
DON'T RUN AWAY!
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hey isnt it great to be so much smarter than mom or dad? god how i remember those days an trips i took to city jail. and them stupid cops telling me i should either straighten up or change my name. why? cuz my dad was police sargent! god like now i am suppose to be better than other 15 yr olds! just cuz he was fuzz?? no way was that going to happen! i no better! so just kept swiming against the current. so girl you just go do your thing! the world will be a better place after you are done! love brokenwing
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Well, you've got guts. All I ever dream of is running far away, and you just up and do it. And so young too...how far did you get, anyway?
Seriously though, I wouldn't consider running away again. You did it so recently, and they probably have you under a lot of surveillance. You'll get caught even quicker this time.
And think of your parents. I don't know you, and I can't imagine what could possibly be so bad to make you run away, but I'm gonna take a guess here and say that you think your parents are tyrants, and you just wanted to be free. I'm sure they love you, and they care. That goes for your friend as well.
About the boy... do you know of any way to reach him? Of course no one's going to tell you to suddenly forget him. It would be insensitive, and hypocritical. Everyone has first loves, and no one wants to hear crap about it. I'd suggest you try to contact him, via phone or email, and if you cant , just cool it for a couple of weeks. Be patient. I'm very sure you'll see him again. Don't give up, though.
Best of luck.
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