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hard to get?
I'm sixteen. This guy and I have been talking. He happens to be a player who thinks I'm some bad girl.lol I actually happen to be a very very good girl. We hung out, and he thought he was going to get some but that didn't happen, so he started acting like an ass hole to me around his friends and my friends. I decided that i'm going to do my best to stop thinking about him in that more than a friend way, but teach him a lesson while i'm at it. For example, he called to apologise, and i told him how i felt about what he did being messed up, and then telling him i had to go. Basically now, everytime he talks we talk for a second, literally, because i've been getting him off the phone quick with all kinds of excuses. This has all worked so well :D lol....because now he is constantly calling and texting me, but i'm still giving him the same treatment, which has got him all crazy because of the way he naggs. So, he asked me a question before I hung up today "do you still like me", and i told him I had to leave. Then he said "when can i call you". then i told him in two hours, and then he said "why not 20 minutes", and i told him, 2 HOURS. that was it...i'm stuck right now, because I want to keep him spinning,but i'm not sure if what i plan to say will work. I wanted to tell him "maybe" or "kind of".....but what do you guys think i shoudl have as a "mind game" answer.
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Well i suggest you keep him guessing like for example "what do you think? Do you think i ACTUALLY like YOU?" & see what he responds & you can tell him "after all does it matter, i don't think so?" For some reason, guy's like it when girls are like that you seem more frisky and challengeable or just don't answer it, make an escuse like you usually do and he's going to keep getting confused and crazy over you!
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First of all, DO NOT say 'MAYBE' or 'KIND OF'!! Those basically mean yes. So go for something more playful, maybe.. "What made you think I liked you? You were an asshole that night! Not exactly my cup-of-tea!" or, if you do like him and want something a little more in the future, say, "Only if you want me to! But I must confess asshole-ness isn't my thing!" He has got to know that being an asshole to you is not acceptable, and it isn't something you like, obviously!
Sounds like you got this guy round your pinky!! :D
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hahaha me and you would totally get along!
Smart girl. Don't let stupid boys take advantage of you!
Well, he's played by your little game for a while now. Give him a little lee way so he still feels like there's hope and he's not getting all worked up for nothing.
I'd say "Well, I did, but I don't really know anymore. You really did act like a big butthead with your friends and stuff and I don't really go for jerks, ya know?"
Hopefully he'll apologize again, totally try to persuade you that he's really not like that, and things will start from there ;)
Let me know what happens! HAA
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Well, not to insult you, but mind games are cruel. Luckily for you, I can be a cruel guy and it sounds like he deserves it.
As a guy I can tell you what bothers the most when we ask something like "Do you still like me?" is when you don't really answer the question. Give a very vague answer that hardly relates to the question. It sounds stupid, but it drives us crazy. It makes us wonder.
Good luck with your torture! ;)
Don't ever change, there aren't enough vengeful people like us.
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