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is he just sexually into me?
So, I'm a 15 year old girl, i've recently started daiting a new boy. We get along great and he always complements me, he comes over alot(5/6 days weve been together) But almost everytime he comes over, things get a little, intence. i started my period a few days ago, so thats kinda saved me. i'm usually not sexually active much at all. but i really like this guy alot.
1. does that kinda sound like hes just sexually into me?
2. if not, what would indecate that he was?
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If all he's looking for is some sexual involvement when he comes over, he's more than likely just looking for sex & nothing else.
He'll more than likely be pressuring you into it, and not listening to you when you say no. You'll know when all he wants is sex.
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Sexual interest is normal. Generally in the beginning of relationships there's a heightened level of sexual activity. I'd be worried of a girl wasn't trying to nail me.
The question is whether you're comfortable with being sexual. It's okay if you're not. Just recognize it and discuss this with him.
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He might calm down a bit over time so you could try waiting a week or more, this could be the way that he thinks is best to express his love of you. incase it is not love and thats all he wants to do with you then it would be best to test him or somthing (without him knowing) by saying your not in the mood but dont make it out that your not into him anymore cuz he may get the wrong idea, ask him with a cute smile if he wants to go out some were and just relax or somthin. (go to the beach a nice field with a bench or somthing) i dunno get creative :)
hopefully i helped a little bit
Matt
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If EVERY time he comes over, ALL he wants to do is something sexual, I'm sorry but he might only be into you sexually.
Try testing him when you're not on your period by telling him you just want to watch a movie or go out to dinner.
Or talk to him and tell him you're not comfortable with the constant need for physicality.
-Laura (17-f)
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