so me and my friend are legit biffs like we cant go a day with out talking and all and im really getting feelings for him. i know i am going to tell him my feelings but i am leaving for vacation for 10 days and he said that he will be calling me alot. (he even said the alot pasrt) and he wants to go the the movies when i come back. the thing is im worried that if i tell him before all of this happens then all of this will disappear and never happen. so should i wait till after the movies which is the last thing? i want to tell him at perfect timing. when is that?? thanks in advance!
JustJessOx answered Thursday June 25 2009, 2:24 pm: hey there =]
I think you should wait untill after the movies and think about things on vacation,see what way he reacts to you when your gone if he says he misses you like crazy and stuff when hes calling you.
see how the movies go and how he acts towards you try and determine whether he might feel the same way back by his body lanuage etc.
way to go for being so brave and telling him alot of people don't do that beacuse they are afraid and possibly let the chance of a great thing happening go!
its never easy telling your friend you like them so, good luck =)I'm sure he will feel the same for you too,and if he doesnt honestly dont worry things will be fine two of my friends told me they liked me but i didnt like them that way and things are still great between us. and ive told guy friend ive liked them and they havnt liked be back and its been fine too.
it might be a little awkward at first while the person is coming to terms with the answer.
anyway hopefully this wont even happen,
hope i helped
much <3
Jess [15/f] [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
boogieoogiex3 answered Thursday June 25 2009, 2:24 pm: AH, my best friend liked me and guess what?
NOW WERE DATING! lol.
It was funny and romantic cause i gained feeling the same way too, but he was the first to admit it i was too shy but like is they're chemistry between you guys? Does he flirt with you? He must like you, if he tells you he wants to talk to you all the time and you guys are inseperable.
Wait for the movies girl, they're no rush and see if something happen's if he makes a move and if he doesn't maybe he's too shy and just like say it playing around like "Oh how would you react if we both ended up dating, like can you imagine us" and see how he respond's so no feeling's would get hurt and maybe after he'll say how he feels. TRUST ME! Best friend's always have that cute love romance bond in the end.
But, think about it too? Is it worth ruining the friendship? Remember it won't be the same after take it from experience when me and him broke up once, it was awkward afterword's.
It's tough and risky! But i would love to hear how it end's hope i helped.
like i said before, I would love to hear from you after! [ boogieoogiex3's advice column | Ask boogieoogiex3 A Question ]
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