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my ex
me and my ex boyfriend lets call him (Y) were such good friends and then all of a sudden he asked me to date him. I said yes for some odd reason, and we dated for about two weeks. kinda weird, but i think i kind of used him to go out and party and just have a good time. and also his really good friend was my boyfriend before him and it was fun for all of us to hang out. But i felt bad for kind of using him so i broke up with him. He's 17 and im 14. and he was heartbroken and he was saying things like "i fell in love with you" and you were mi vida(my life). and just things like that but i just would apologize and say things like im sorry i just cant. and i started to talk to my current boyfriend(falling in LOVE) and (Y) started to breakdown. he wanted to fight everyone and when me and my boyfriend would be together he would be texting me and saying things like if you dont write back im coming to your house. and i would say look im sorry for everything and im happy now why cant we just be friends ? but he got shot, and stabbed and would be in the hospital for being stupid and getting in fights.
Now he has a girlfriend ! (thank GOD) and he told her hes still in love with me. ugh, so of course everytime she walks by me she gives that look. But i dont even care because im happy. and even though he has a girlfriend the text messages and calls still happen and it drives me CRAZY. and i tell him all the time to leave me alone. What do i do ?!!
thanks.
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wow. looks like you have made this guy fall hard. aww..
but he does need to respect your boundaries. if u dont want to be with him you need to set him straight. tell him that you only want to be friends, and if he cant respect that, and only talk to you as a friend, then dont talk to you at all. as much as the threats scare you, you mat have to ignore him. you can live your life tip-toeing around worrying about what someone else does. if you really think he will do something to hurt himself or you, you may have to call authorities (just saying..i really hope it doesnt come to that for you).
tell him that he needs to stop, you dont love him anymore, and he needs to accept that. dont keep apologixing because that lets him know u have a soft spot for him, and he WILL keep poking at it. gotta show him some tough love. and stick to it! hope this helps you out..lemme know how it goes
xoxo Alyssa
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