so there is this boy jordan who i really like. he's a really good friend. I dont really know if he likes me but he be flirting with me alot and he will just stare at me for along time. I will ask him what and he will just shrug. and when we walk by each other we smile at each other all the time. One time while we was eating lunch he was just messing and flirting with me and i thought in my head omg he likes me and then my this other girl was like tiffany he likes you and i was like i know to her. but then he be talking about girls alot but he usually just be lying about the girls because his sister be telling me he's lieing. but he has family that live in canada and there's this girl there and i think he likes her because this guy ask if this boy named mike liked him and his little brother was like no but jordan does. so i think he likes that girl. but i dont know what to do. i know the only thing to do is talk to him but i really cant do that. so help me please
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Gini answered Tuesday June 23 2009, 2:16 am: Well... You're right. The only thing for you to do is to talk to him. Just, when ever there's time, (perhaps at lunch? After/before school) talk to him about this girl in Canada. Just start up the conversation casually, and when you think the time is right, ask him if he likes her. Or, if you'd rather, you could ask him if he likes you. I went through a similar ordeal, and the only answer is to talk it out. Otherwise, there will be misunderstandings, and everything could just fall flat. Worst comes to worst, he doesn't like you as a girlfriend. That doesn't mean you can't still be friends. When I got turned down by a good friend of mine, I just said okay. And we continued to be great friends. All that awkwardness is just a state of mind. If you can just let things happen and roll with it, everthing'll be fine :]
And if you simply can't bare to talk about it face to face, then you could talk with Jordan online. Email, IM; That sort of thing.
You could even text or call him,
Hope that helped.
Good luck honey!;D
Andreaaaa answered Tuesday June 23 2009, 12:52 am: I don't get why girls say "I like this boy, but I can't tell him. What should I do?!"
WHY can't you tell them? If your looking for any kind of relationship, remember, communication is a key factor. So start off your communication skills early by telling him!
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