Hey :]
My name is Jenny, though my friends call me Gini (as in ginipig)It's sort of an inside joke.
Everyone says that I'm quiet.
And I am, but only because it's so interesting to observe people.
I play the violin, guitar, drum kit, and piano.
I enjoy camping and hunting with my father.
My family is very... Apart.
We don't spend much time with eachother, and we don't get along very well.
But I practically live with my friend, so it's okay.
My friends and I are all pretty weird and wild...
I like metal the best out of all genre's of music, but I'm very open to other styles.
Rap, hip-hop, and alternative are the three genre's I listen to the most (after metal)
I'm kind of random.
Okay, very random.
So yeah... That's about it...
E-mail: Giniluvmetal@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: June 23, 2009
Answers: 3
Last Update: June 23, 2009
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im trying recently to be or act as an emo but i find some difficulties in this, i want sm1 to give me some advices and steps about being emo....i listen to emo music but i dont feel that this is enough, i mean about the outlook of emos.,.,someone tell me pleeeaaase (link)
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I'm sorry to say this, you can't be emo. It's a genre of music, lol. Sorry. But I see what you mean. You should just be yourself. If you're the stereotypical "emo" then that's who you are.
As some of the other columnists have said, "emo" is a psychological thing. An illness. You don't want to be that way... Trust me.
Although I never associated myself as an "emo", I did used to cut myself. I tell you this, not as a suggestion to become "emo" but as an example of why you shouldn't. It got my in so much trouble you would not believe...
My opinion aside, it's not enough to just listen to [awesome] music. There's an entire life style involved. I myself used to where TONS of [darker] band tee's. I would also never been seen without a jacket on. (perferably tight fitted) Skinny jeans are always fun ;]
As for the attitude. Typically pessimistic, though often indifferent. I was always very open, and opinionated, but that may just be me...
Oh, very artistic- another trait of the typical "emo"
Anyway, trying to be "emo" is just getting sucked into the stupid stereotypical world...
Shoot me an email at; giniluvmetal@gmail.com, and I could share some more in-depth stuff about the life style you're attempting to take on.
Hope you found at least some of this helpfull.
Good luck sweet heart! ;D
-Gini
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Hi I really think I have a problem. I dont like eating..... I think it's because I'm afraid of gaining weight. Sometimes I force myself not to eat but my mom makes me eat. I mean i dont want to be anorexic or anything but I just want to eat less. I have like no portion control what so ever. It sucks!
Please give me some advice? :) (link)
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A lot of people don't like eating.
Some of my friends don't like to eat.
They describe it as an annoyance.
Perhaps this is what you're thinking?
Anyway, just because it can be annoying, you should eat at LEAST 2 good meals a day. (That's what my friends do ;])
Just eat healthy.
And don't go a long time without eating then gorge yourself.
It's actually better to eat frequent, small meals.
You can't get over weight with one meal, so don't worry about it.
Eat right, and stay active through out the day. You'll be fine ;]
Hope that helped.
Good luck honey!
-Gini
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so there is this boy jordan who i really like. he's a really good friend. I dont really know if he likes me but he be flirting with me alot and he will just stare at me for along time. I will ask him what and he will just shrug. and when we walk by each other we smile at each other all the time. One time while we was eating lunch he was just messing and flirting with me and i thought in my head omg he likes me and then my this other girl was like tiffany he likes you and i was like i know to her. but then he be talking about girls alot but he usually just be lying about the girls because his sister be telling me he's lieing. but he has family that live in canada and there's this girl there and i think he likes her because this guy ask if this boy named mike liked him and his little brother was like no but jordan does. so i think he likes that girl. but i dont know what to do. i know the only thing to do is talk to him but i really cant do that. so help me please (link)
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Well... You're right. The only thing for you to do is to talk to him. Just, when ever there's time, (perhaps at lunch? After/before school) talk to him about this girl in Canada. Just start up the conversation casually, and when you think the time is right, ask him if he likes her. Or, if you'd rather, you could ask him if he likes you. I went through a similar ordeal, and the only answer is to talk it out. Otherwise, there will be misunderstandings, and everything could just fall flat. Worst comes to worst, he doesn't like you as a girlfriend. That doesn't mean you can't still be friends. When I got turned down by a good friend of mine, I just said okay. And we continued to be great friends. All that awkwardness is just a state of mind. If you can just let things happen and roll with it, everthing'll be fine :]
And if you simply can't bare to talk about it face to face, then you could talk with Jordan online. Email, IM; That sort of thing.
You could even text or call him,
Hope that helped.
Good luck honey!;D
-Gini
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