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My first kiss... typical question
So I'm 15/f and I have my first boyfriend. We've been going out for about two weeks and I haven't kissed him yet, and neither of us have ever kissed anybody before. I'm pretty nervous, and I'm sure that he is, too, but I'm going over his house in a few days and we're going to be alone, so that will probably be a good time to get my first kiss, and for him to get his. I really don't want to screw anything up, so does anyone have any advice on how to go about this? Thanks so much, I really appreciate it :)
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Aww! I also got my first kiss when I was fifteen, also with my first boyfriend (and was also his first kiss!).
Easier said than done--try and relax. The beginnings of relationships are always kind of weird and awkward. But don't worry about it.
Also, don't think about screwing up. Don't think about not screwing up either! If you concentrate on it, you will inevitably end up screwing up. Just don't think about it at all... do what comes natural, and if something goes wrong, think of it as something to laugh at later. Okay, much later.
I think most people remember their first kiss fondly, and probably you'll be the same. Our memories have an amazing way of taking our favorite memories and editing out all the bad parts. So if there's something that one or both of you stress about at the moment, just realize that it's probably a small thing that you guys won't remember in a few months!
Good luck and much love!
~TD
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first kisses are soo cute!! i remember mine. ok so what you want to do is RELAX. if you are really tense and jumpy, it will seem really awkward. thats how mine was haha. first of all, i wouldnt recommend to kiss while you 2 are sitting next to each other. my first bf and i were sitting right next to each other and when we tilted our heads, it was really awkward. so i suggest kissing when you are face-to-face. not side by side. secondly, make sure your breath is not stinky. brush your teeth, and eat lots of mints. trust me, guys love minty breaths :) it adds a spice to the kiss. third, you want to close your eyes. if you keep your eyes open, it gets awkward. fourth, the kiss doesnt have to be long. it could just be a peck. maximum 3 seconds. after the kiss, look him in the eyes. after my kiss, my face turned bright red and i looked away. he thought it was cute haha.
just remember, practice makes perfect. my first, second, and even third kiss was awkward. but after the first 3, you get really used to it. and its like eating candy. super easy and sweet :)
-good luck!
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What I did when I had my first kiss was that I first kissed him on the cheek. If he kisses ur cheek back, maybe you can try a peck on the lips. Hope this helps.
Janie93
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