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My current is jelous of my ex


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 11:29 pm

man it feels like I have a new problem every day.
I've been spending alot of my time with this guy jason, and im crazy about him. Before him I was totally in love with this guy josh and honestly I still love him dearly but we aren't good for eachother and I accept that. But Jason he doesn't want me to talk to josh, hang out with him or anything. He expects me to leave behind one of the most important people in my life(someone i've known for over six years) for him (someone i've known for less than a year). I cant do it and I wont. He says that he knows about me and josh's past and that he thinks I would leave him for josh, we argue about this guy every day and im sick of it. Josh has even tried being his freind so that we can all get...

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My ex says I am selfish but won't tell me why, and my new crush just wants to have sex with me, I want my ex AND the new guy!


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 10:10 pm

my boyfriend just broke up with me because he thought i was being selfish but i don't know what i said to make him think that he and he won't tell me. and today i saw this guy at the pool who used to live in my neighborhood.i had a slight crush on him but he likes my boobs and he wanted to touch them so i let him and we kissed but he tried to touch me down there and it turns out he just wanted to get in my pants. before and after the kiss happened i catch him staring at me. so i don't know if that means he's interested in dating me or having sex with me. the day he came to the pool is the same day my ex dumped me and the minute i saw the guy at the pool i did feel like i wanted to date him and get to know him more and possibly make somethin...

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What to do when you dont feel appreciated in relationship?


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 10:07 pm

my boyfriend and i are going great but sometimes when i try to discuss things or try to talk about how im feeling he yells and gets mad and end up being an arguement about it.


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I want to be able to talk sexy to my boyfriend... What should I say to be sexy with my boyfriend?


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 10:05 pm

What are some sexy things to say to your boyfriend?

Nothing cheesy, I want some really sexy, but not terribly slutty things I can say to my boyfriend so he knows I am attracted to him.

Thank you!

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One of those questions - Crush on best friend


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 7:28 pm

Haha, alright. I never thought I'd be asking this question here, but recently it has come to my attention that I have a crush on one of my best friends. I've known him for a very long time but I've never really considered pursuing him until just a few days ago. But I guess I've always had feelings for him to an extent, because I love him as a person and he is attractive.
Just to give some background, he is 19 and I am 18. We live down the road from each other and spend literally almost every day together, along with a few other mutual friends. I was in a relationship for just over four years, and when we broke up (around two months ago) it was my friend, who I'll call J, that I went to. He has always been really good to me. We have a...

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songs


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 6:00 pm

what are song recently new good love songs ... ei. thunder by boyslikegirls....??
thanks kaaitlyn

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should i? or no?


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 3:53 pm

okayy so me and my ex are hanging out this tuesday. and remember how i mentioned after prom night how i was kinda flirty with a friend since he pretty much ditched me and then he got really pissed at me for it? well i want to ask him why he got pissed...cause i mean, why would he get pissed if he didn't still love me? (btw i called him and pretty much cried to him telling him i was sorry..which secretly i don't really know what i'm sorry for? cause we aren't even dating so its not like i cheated on him) i think he's confused and just hitting that rough stage in the relationship..but i still want him back =/

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girl.. w/ bi-boyfriend?


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 1:36 pm

i'm 18/female. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 amazing months. we've been best friends for several years and our relationship is awesome. it was an instant connection. we've even considered getting married in a few years because our connection was just amazing and our love goes really deep. we're both strong Christians and very open with each other. he'd told me when we first started dating that he'd struggled with porn. last night he told me that it had been gay porn and he still struggles with it. he said he thinks he might be attracted to guys and girls. he says he is still completely in love with me but wanted to be honest and didn't want this to break us up. i agreed to stay with him and try to help him though this. it's ki...

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getting back together (quite long but worth it)


Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 9:48 am

me and my boyfriend are one of those couples who break up and still act like couples evn though not together. which i dont like i do want to do the things we do if we're not together so i asked him to get back together he's like whenever we get back together we end so horribly.. just give it another chance im willing to try again i think it will work and he's like im sorry but i just dont think it'll work. i got in deep depression after that i mean i had sex with this guy when we weren't dating thinking oh yeah he loves you and he'll eventually ask you out again and what not but he didn't. and because of this depression i started to go out alot to try and get my mind off the pain but i only had guy friends girls tend to not like me much so ...

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I don't love anyone, I just have little crushes


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 9:13 pm

This whole year, I haven't liked one guy. (And I mean loved one) I've only had a series of crushes. I'd think a guy is cute or something, usually wouldn't talk to him, and then get over it. I'd barely know him, too. At the end of the year, I started talking to a guy that I had a little crush on, and I got to know him better. He was actually really nice and quircky. Then, school ended and I haven't talked to him since. I don't have his number and he doesn't have a facebook or anything. I don't get it, how come I don't love anyone? Am I weird for not liking anyone? I want to be in love and feel love Is it because I don't love myself, so then I have no love to give? What's wrong with me?

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Your stories..


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 7:36 pm

me and my ex have been on and off we just can't get our relationship right. but every time we're apart we fall back in love but this times done for. i asked my boyfriend if he wanted to get back together i wanted to try just once more because he moved down to my city so we're closer and can be stronger now but he doesn't want to because we always end rough. and well (i'm a girl) and i know we can get back together because he really wants to aswell but i kind of need alittle push and what i ask is if any of you (females) were in a situation like this how you wanted to get back together with your boyfriend but he didn't want to how you fought to convince him to.. because my friends are all like the guy is suppost to want to get back together ...

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Ex boyfriend coming back?


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 3:41 pm

Okay so i went out with this boy for a year and a half and he broke up with me because we were fighting alot towards the end. No one including me saw this coming because he seemed so in love. I was very pathetic when we first broke up and just crushed(he was the only person i ever slept with and same with him). Anyways, now that it is summer i have done pretty good in staying away from him and even tried dating some other guys. One of the guys that my ex knew about emailed me the other day and was like "your ex requested to be my friend on facebook?". I thought this was really weird but tried not to read too much into it. Anyways, today he started texting me and wants to see a movie next saturday. Im very confused on what to do......

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for all the black guys out there


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 3:31 am

do you guys like skinny girls?

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Uhhhh... right..


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 2:51 am

So, my boyfriend has high morals. He doesn't like to talk about inappropriate things, or.. anything like that. I've been dating him for about a month and a half now and i'm not sure where he wants our relationship to go. I mean, we haven't kissed, or anything. But we've only seen each other a few times. Should I ask him about it? I dont know what to do. I don't want to over step any boundries..so what should i do? ask him about it? or just let things play out?

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Am I thinking unreasonably?


Posted Saturday June 27 2009, 1:38 am

I want honest answers because I don't know if I've turned into a crazy girlfriend or am I thinking right.

Over the summer me and my boyfriend have this unwritten rule that during the day he hangs out with his guy friends and then I come over around 4. Well recently he got a car and it needs work and he hasn't stopped working on it all week. Today I went shopping with the girls and he was working on cars with the guys and we agreed to meet back up at his house around 4 as usual. I get there and he wasn't there, so I hang around for an hour and there was no sign that he was coming home so his sister and I decided to go into town and shop around for an hour before all the shops close. One of the stores stayed open for us so we e...

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Maybe its not love?


Posted Friday June 26 2009, 10:44 pm

I've been dating this one guy for almost 8 months. We tell each other we love each other and all that stuff. I do love him, I suppose. It's just, one week I'm really into him and the other I'm just all 'blah..' towards him. I dunno. I feel as if the feelings have changed ? But there's this other guy. My boyfriends best friend. We used to talk a lot and flirt bunches when school was in. Which, I know was wrong, but I kinda couldn't help it. We connected instantly and he's real cool. I know he likes me, and I kinda have thing going for him too. A while ago, I considered breaking up with my boyfriend for him, but decided against it. And now there's this other guy. Hes a year younger than me. We talk all the time. We're pretty much best friends...

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Sorry, another boyfriend problem question.


Posted Friday June 26 2009, 9:56 pm

I really tried to make this short. I clearly failed at that. Sorry.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. We’re both 17 nearly 18. Things were amazing for a while. I’d never been happier. But he warned me from the very beginning that he’s been diagnosed as bi-polar and depressed. I told him I would never let it get to me and I’d always be there for him and that I wouldn’t let it push me away. We’ve been having a lot of problems lately though. Just a bunch of arguing. Basically every day. I honestly don’t blame all of it on him. Nor do I blame it on his bi-polar disorder and depression. It’s really just both of us. I feel like he either wants to be arguing or intimate and that’s it, no...

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do i really like him or is it jus my phone?!


Posted Friday June 26 2009, 9:18 pm

17/f
Ok so i have liked this guy since last fall or winter (*bob*) and still really really do. I havent ever told him but i know he knows or at least knew it. He heard it from his other friend who is also my friend. The thing is jus recently we hung out (always do) and we hung out wi another one of his friends *billy*. well i have hung out wi bob n billy both (since theyre friends)n now billy really likes me. well my feelins are so strong for bob i havent had any crushes or even thought bout anyone the same way till now bc billy is so sweet and thats what gets me.we text bc i dont have good reception at my house n he makes me feel really really good n were gettin a lil cozy. but its all jus text. how do i know if i really like him or...

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my question is about a guy im really interested in


Posted Friday June 26 2009, 7:49 pm

i met this guy like a month ago n i really like him alot.now me n him are only friends..im not sure whether he feels the same way so my question is how do i tell him that i like him??? im afraid that he might turn me down!!! anyway my name is suraya n im 17 years old..im from malaysia..female

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Love Triangle?!


Posted Friday June 26 2009, 7:48 pm

Ok so you see, I like this guy. Let's call him Guy#1. I wasn't sure if I loved him so I had asked an advice column how I would know...they were right. They say there's no definition for love. To each his own, you know? So I decided I love Guy#1.But then today, later in the day, I realized I just might love this other guy. Let's call him Guy#2. Now to start, there've been rumors that Guy#1 liked me. But Guy#2 I've known since kindergarten and he's been my best frind since then. But today he started telling me how amazing I am...but he tells his friends he wants to be friends. We've dated before but it didn;t work out. Also, my friend loves him...but I've never felt this way before. What's more important? The happiness of Guy#1 and my friend, or my own happiness? What about Guy#2? Help!

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