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My ex says I am selfish but won't tell me why, and my new crush just wants to have sex with me, I want my ex AND the new guy!
my boyfriend just broke up with me because he thought i was being selfish but i don't know what i said to make him think that he and he won't tell me. and today i saw this guy at the pool who used to live in my neighborhood.i had a slight crush on him but he likes my boobs and he wanted to touch them so i let him and we kissed but he tried to touch me down there and it turns out he just wanted to get in my pants. before and after the kiss happened i catch him staring at me. so i don't know if that means he's interested in dating me or having sex with me. the day he came to the pool is the same day my ex dumped me and the minute i saw the guy at the pool i did feel like i wanted to date him and get to know him more and possibly make something happen but my ex is special to me and i really loved him and i want to make this work. im torn between two guys. my heart says my ex but my mind says the guy at the pool what should i do (i hope this doesn't confuse you i feel like i just rambled on )
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Oi.
Ok. You want romance, and love, and you're horny so sex isn't unappealing.
The guy at the pool wants sex, sex, and is horny so he wants more sex. However old he is, he walked up to a 14 year old and immediately started feeling her up.
This is an obvious giveaway that he wants sex, only sex, nothing but sex, and if you ask for anything more than that you're going to be rejected.
Take this as a learning experience. When a guy starts touching you before he starts talking to you, he wants nothing but sex. He is not capable of giving you what you want, because to be honest he's kind of a loser.
Figure out the ex, if you want to get back with him try. The guy at the pool should be ignored regardless of what else you do, unless you like being used like a disposable sex toy and tossed aside because once he's scored you're just an annoying teenaged girl he cares nothing for.
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I'm really sorry that your ex broke up with you :( and especially for an unclear reason. Maybe he's mad about something you may or may not have done. Maybe you hurt his feelings in some way. Is there anything you may have done to make him upset? I think that you should continue to ask him why it was that he broke up with you. If he simply doesn't want to give you an answer then there is nothing you can do but leave him be and move on. But maybe there is a real reason which the two of you can talk about.
As for the new guy, I strongly suggest that you stay away from him if you don't want to get your heart broken again. I'm not sure what your ex treated you like, but any guy who just wants to touch your breasts and feel you up without even knowing you, is so not worth your time. I know it's tough trying to get over your boyfriend right now but you could seriously do so much better. If your ex doesn't want to get back together with you for whatever reason, then please do not pursue this new guy. He'll just use you :( and you don't want that. The best thing to do would be to hang out with some friends and try to get over your ex and once you are over him then you can see if you want another relationship. But trust me, you are young and have tons of time to meet some great guys so don't settle for this crush. :/
I wish you the best of luck. Take care.<3
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