me and my ex have been on and off we just can't get our relationship right. but every time we're apart we fall back in love but this times done for. i asked my boyfriend if he wanted to get back together i wanted to try just once more because he moved down to my city so we're closer and can be stronger now but he doesn't want to because we always end rough. and well (i'm a girl) and i know we can get back together because he really wants to aswell but i kind of need alittle push and what i ask is if any of you (females) were in a situation like this how you wanted to get back together with your boyfriend but he didn't want to how you fought to convince him to.. because my friends are all like the guy is suppost to want to get back together and ask girls out and stuff its desperate when a girl does it. is it really? and if you have alittle short story of how you tried to get your boyfriend and you to get back together it would really motivate me because i feel weird being the girl and asking you know?..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? laynemayhem answered Sunday June 28 2009, 12:59 am: my boyfriend and i started out as good friends. then he said he liked me. i didnt like him at first, and then i started to. we started going out, and after 3 months he asked if we could take a break. the break lasted a week, and then we were back together for a month. after that month, he broke it off again, for reasons i didnt understand. for about 6 or 7 months, i spent every day crying. at night, i cried myself to sleep. i was in this huge depression and when i tried to talk to him, he wouldnt answer my calls or texts or ims. finally, i just gave up and waited for him to contact me. i felt pathetic, waiting by my phone for a call, waiting for all these lost memories to disappear. whenever id get a text, id hold my breath and start crying when it wasnt him. the longest period we went without talking during that 7 months was 5 months. finally, he slowly started talking to me again. i always waited for him to call or text or im. and because i didnt annoy the shit out of him or act desperate, he started talking to me again.
what i say you should do, is do what i did. (minus the crying and constant worry and depression and desperation for attention from him -.-'') just dont try to contact him anymore. wait for him to call you. if he really does want to get back together, and thinks that you've given up, he'll call. trust me.
good luck, and dont think too little of me :( but my boyfriend and i did get back together, and now we've been dating for 6 months, so HA!! :) take care. [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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