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Maybe its not love?
I've been dating this one guy for almost 8 months. We tell each other we love each other and all that stuff. I do love him, I suppose. It's just, one week I'm really into him and the other I'm just all 'blah..' towards him. I dunno. I feel as if the feelings have changed ? But there's this other guy. My boyfriends best friend. We used to talk a lot and flirt bunches when school was in. Which, I know was wrong, but I kinda couldn't help it. We connected instantly and he's real cool. I know he likes me, and I kinda have thing going for him too. A while ago, I considered breaking up with my boyfriend for him, but decided against it. And now there's this other guy. Hes a year younger than me. We talk all the time. We're pretty much best friends right now. I spent the whole day tubing with him, and we flirted.. A lot. He kept smacking my butt, and hugging me from behind and holding me. It felt really nice. He kept wanting to kiss me, but I told him not to. Since I'm taken and all. I don't want to sound like a slut, cause I'm not. I just, I don't know what to do. Some days, I want to break up with my boyfriend to go out with someone else, but then my feelings totally change. :/ What should I do?
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it sounds like right now the best thing for you to do is be single. You seem to have feelings for a mix of boys and its not fair to play with all of them so maybe just try being single for a little and see how that goes.
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You're already having feelings that you shouldn't be with your boyfriend & that's dangerous enough. It isn't fair to keep changing your mind about what you want, even if you haven't told him about this.
If you don't know what you want, it's unfair to keep your boyfriend in the loop & you need to end the relationship.
Take some time for yourself. Do not jump into a relationship immediately after breaking up with your boyfriend because that will not only look slutty, BUT it'll also look as if you never loved him. I've been in that situation where the guy did that to me, and it really hurts to be on that end of the situation.
But break up. Your boyfriend doesn't deserve the short end of the stick and this relationship just sounds like a waste of time if you're not completely committed anymore.
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you know what you need to do? you need to break up with your bf and enjoy your life. This is your time to meet people, see what other boys are like. you are not ready to settle with someone just now, you need to be free and do what you feel like doing. This is your youth, have fun!
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