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Uhhhh... right..
So, my boyfriend has high morals. He doesn't like to talk about inappropriate things, or.. anything like that. I've been dating him for about a month and a half now and i'm not sure where he wants our relationship to go. I mean, we haven't kissed, or anything. But we've only seen each other a few times. Should I ask him about it? I dont know what to do. I don't want to over step any boundries..so what should i do? ask him about it? or just let things play out?
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Your boyfriend might have had a past that he isn't proud of. He probably just doesn't want it to happen again. But, conversation is everything. Ask him why he has those high morals, but don't go too far, sound warm and inviting and start out slow. He'll come around sooner or later.
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Thats not moral, thats prude. Theres a stark difference.
The unwillingness to _do_ certain things can be considered a moral choice. Stifling communication because he's uncomfortable is not, its just him being uncomfortable.
Tell him that you need to be able to talk to him about things. If he's not willing...
Refusing to talk about something, especially because its "inappropriate" isn't something I find acceptable in my relationships. I seek people who share that standard and walk when I end up on a date with someone who doesn't.
If he won't talk, you have to decide if he's worth pursuing or if a month is more time than you really want to have wasted on him.
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Talk to him about it and ask him where he sees the relationship going.
Maybe he wants to kiss you, but he's just waiting for the right time?
But playing guessing games and just wondering won't get you anywhere. Just ask him.
--Jack
(17/m)
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