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I am dating an older man. Will it last?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 9:31 pm
I am a 22 year old woman dating a 39 year old man. We've been together for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and he loves me.
Can our relationship last despite our age difference?
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BFF? or BF?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 8:29 pm
Okay so I have this guy friend that I've been friends with since like before kindergarden, no lie! We had the whole first kiss in first grade thing, and stayed extremely close! Then in middle school we drifted apart. We were in the same classes in 8th grade and sat next to eachother in every class. We have the same sense of cruel humor, and make fun of everyone, haha. Last week we met eachother at the rope swing by the river (I know that sounds really country haha) swam and did all that, and when the sun was sitting he sang the song Then by Brad Paisley. We've told eachother we have strong feelings for eachother, but can't decide whether or not to stay friends or become an item. Help?
14/f
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guys are pigs. why?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 8:11 pm
ijust have a quick question: why are(some) guys sweet and nice to you when you're alone and then when they're with their friends and they see you they turn into loudmouthed pigs and then all of a sudden you don't exist but the popular girls do?
also.. why do they think that after they ignore you one day they can go back to being sweeties the next and THEN they wonder why your mad.
please shed some light on the situation for me.
thanks
16/f
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What does it mean to be "together".....but not dating?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 6:08 pm
14/f
I'm going to boarding school in less than a month and am currently in a relationship with my "friend". We're "together" but decided to wait on dating. We had dated earlier during the first week of summer when we didn't know each other but have become really very close. We have admitted we loved each other and are fully commited to each other....but as friends. I'm confused because soon we'll be going to different highschools (me co-ed boarding school and him normal) and I'm not so sure what, I guess you could say, the rules or guidelines of a relationship like this are. I know we'll meet other people but does us being only friends mean we're supposed to be exclsive? I love him as a dear friend and mor...
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Why Won't He?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 5:45 pm
If I ramble, I apologize, I have a tendency to do that.
The basic thing of this situation is that a friend between me and this guy I like has told him of my feelings for him, and my friend told me that he likes me as well ( my friend did that because they said that he won't usually ask a girl out until he knows that she likes him, so there's no rejection ).
Well. He knows. I know. They, we, them, all, know. And nothing's happening.
The only possibility I can really think of is that maybe he's still just waiting for us to hang out some more ( we haven't really hung out TOO much yet maybe.. 6 times now? ) so he could be getting a better feel for how I'd be around family and such as a girlfriend. C...
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Dating
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 4:45 pm
How do you know when a guy you've met is the right one? And after how long of knowing eachother,when are two people considered 'dating'? People can just be really good friends,right? What is the main difference between really good friends and boyfriend/girlfriend? I am a 17f
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One year
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 3:46 pm
Okay so me and my boyfriends one year anniversary is coming up and i have NO idea what to do. We've never really given eachother anything for month anniversarys because well neither of us really have any money, and dont work. (were 17) but i really wanna do something special for him. I can get some money from my parents. hes my best friend, we've known eachother for years and i have never been happier with anybody else. His style is like fitted hats, baggy jeans and skater shoes, i dont know how to classify him. He drinks and smokes(not such a great thing i know) and he LOVES cars. any idea what i could do or get him? any help is greatly appreciated!
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How do I push him away a little without hurting him?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 1:43 pm
I just started to date my manager at work about three weeks ago. He is an amazing guy and we really like eachother.
My only problem with the whole situation is the fact he wants to be around me all the time like if I could he would want me to live with him already. I want to see him a lot too, but I'm afriad that because its the beginning of our relationship that it might mess it up later if we take it too fast now.
How do I push him away a little without hurting him?
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flirting?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 12:31 pm
so the other day,
well actually now a couple of days ago,
me, my girlfriend, my guy friend, and one of my closest (girl) friends, went out.
all the while i couldnt help but notice that my (girl) friend, kept flirting with my girlfriend.
she called her cute, and when my dude friend squished a bug that my girlfriend was looking at my (girl) friend sort of pretended to beat my dude friend up. in the car back home, my (girl) friend kept trying to talk to my girlfriend, and i was just livid that whole ride.
i didnt know if i was just being rediculous and over pretective or not, so i chose not to say anything.
im not worried about my girlfriend liking my (girl) friend, i just think that it was s...
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Honeymoon questions
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 12:07 pm
My fiance and I are getting married in December, and we really want to go on a nice honeymoon, because shortly after the wedding, he will be going into military training. we would like a cruise or a nice stay at a tropical location.
Ive looked at some travel websites like travelocity, and expedia, etc, but im a little hesitant to set up anything because im not sure how reputable they are, or if there are going to be hidden fees or anything. im kinda nervous about it.
does anyone have any suggestions on good, reputable travel websites?
do any of you have any experiences with this? Id like to hear about your trip and where you booked it and how much it cost.
I hope someone can help me out
Steph 21 =]
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I love you?
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 3:44 am
I was on the on the phone again with my guy friend and he was suppose to sing song to me..He sung this song called I love you...AFter he sing it,,he say: "Now I can't get this i love you sonf out of my head..I dont know why"
Is he hinting sumehing?
..how is this important?
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fun things to do before my time is cut short
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 2:32 am
I have 18 days left with my boyfriend before I go to college and I don't want to spend every day sitting in his room watching tv. I enjoy those days but when I'm sitting in my dorm remembering my summer I want there to be more than just hanging out and watching tv.
So what are some fun things to do?
We like...
-fishing
-eating/cooking
-making stuff
-he would enjoy anything that has to do with a car
-i like museams and artsy stuff
-taking drives on quiet back roads
-adventures in general
-sightseeing
It seems like we do the same stuff all the time. Fishing and traveling..or traveling to a good fishing spot are a few things that are sort of th...
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Age gaps
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 1:34 am
I wanna know everyones' opinions on age differences in relationships. Mind you, this is out of total curiosity, as a friend of mine and I were discussing this the other day. So I just want to know what you think, like, how big of a difference is too much, and what not.
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GUYSSSSSSSSSsss x_X
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 1:26 am
Okay I met this guy one day his name is lets say BRAD, that my friend who is JOHNNY picked my self and two of my homegirls up from the mall. & since the moment I saw him I thought he was oso cute. We've only hung out a couple times and it was always a group of us it's never been just me and him alone. One day me and a homegirl came back from the beachhhh a little drunk and etc.. and he was there at JOHNNYS house once again... and i dont kno what we talked about that I gave him my number and he NEVER called . w.e tho I payed no mind to it. This friday we were all going out together... and JOHNNY couldn't pick me up so he sent BRAD to pick me up.. and so he had to get my number and call me to tell me he was outside. The whole ride to JOHN...
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ave mariaaa
Posted Monday August 3 2009, 1:10 am
Okay , I have a friend i've know since ninth grade and we used to have a thing but it was more friend type shit. and my Best friend he was hitting on her and me and him have hooked up before does it bother me ? no , not at all. but now idk how he'll take it ... when he find out that myself and a friend of his that he introduced us are like talking. idk wether to tell him or should the guy im talking tell him? and how should we tell him ? is it that serious ? like help please :D
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one last chance.
Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 10:18 pm
17/ F
(Sorry if this is long) Okay, well there's this boy let's call him Adam. I met Adam my freshmen year. I had two classes with him. We weren't really close friends, but we talked a lot. I guess you can say we were acquaintances. He was really nice with me and he was really great to have around. Then out of nowhere I couldn't bare talking to him because I would freeze up. I caught myself staring at him numerous times. I found myself taking the same way he does just to see him. Long story short. I realize I had feelings for him. I still had him for those two classes and we continued to talk until second semester when my schedule got change and so did out seats. I only had one class with him and he didn't sit anywhere near h...
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I messed up
Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 9:05 pm
I had sex with my girl and she thought I tricked her and didnt wear a condom but in reality it slipped off. I was pissed at her for not letting me explain and I told a lot of people which pissed her off. I know she will eventually get over it but what do I say to her to let her know Im sorry?
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why is my boyfriend suddenly becoming clingy?
Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 6:46 pm
last night, we were up late together in person.
we started a small argument about wanting and not wanting to do sexual things with each other. then he began to cry (which he rarely does) and said that he was sorry for forcing me to do something i didn't want to. i told him it was alright, but he didn't believe me.
so today, he didn't answer my text for about 20 minutes and i was like, alright that's fine. then he texted me - "baby, i'm so sorry i didn't text you back quicker. i'm such an asshole, i should have paid more attention." i was like, what? o.O because i didn't care that he didn't reply ASAP. i can live without him texting me within 20 minutes.
it's just pretty recent.. and i don't know why he's su...
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Is it me?Or is love over rated?
Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 6:09 pm
I don't know why,but my love life is a disaster.I don't know why I don't have a boyfriend.I am good-looking and smart,also a nice and friendly person,but no guy seems interested in me.No matter how hard I try no one likes me.So,the question is-what am I doing wrong?Is it me or something else?
I'm a 15 year old girl btw and I don't know what to do,I'm quite depressed about this whole thing.
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me and my ex boyfriend...
Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 5:16 pm
myself and my boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago. we had a great relationship for the 8 months we wore a couple,and he left me for his ex cause his ex would not let him see his son who is 4.she cheated on him 9 months ago an they broke up now her boyfriend dumps her an she wanted my fella back he alwayes said no but then she used the child saying if you love your son you will take me back 4him. any way she guilted him an he took her back.but he told me he loves me and is doing it for his son.. but he rings me every day and we meet up as often as we can..when she is not around. or if he can get away.we do NOT have sex or anything like that we talk an kiss an cuddle an he takes me places like for dinner or cinema its like were a couple but wore n...
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