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Why Won't He?
If I ramble, I apologize, I have a tendency to do that.
The basic thing of this situation is that a friend between me and this guy I like has told him of my feelings for him, and my friend told me that he likes me as well ( my friend did that because they said that he won't usually ask a girl out until he knows that she likes him, so there's no rejection ).
Well. He knows. I know. They, we, them, all, know. And nothing's happening.
The only possibility I can really think of is that maybe he's still just waiting for us to hang out some more ( we haven't really hung out TOO much yet maybe.. 6 times now? ) so he could be getting a better feel for how I'd be around family and such as a girlfriend. Cause a couple days ago, I was at his family's house and we were all playing games and having a great time and me and him were being very flirtatious towards eachother poking eachother's sides and stealing cards from eachother and whatnot ( he gave me alot of high fives as well whenever we got questions right, wasn't sure if this was good or bad. I assumed good?)
He just seems like the type of guy that if he likes a girl, he will typically ask her out. He's a really sweet, decent guy and it's bugging me so bad as to why he won't ask me out.
And I know, I know, why don't I? I'm just a strange thing and just cannot bring myself to ever ask anybody out. :/ But I've been told by a couple people how if he likes them, he asks them out. So. I just don't know what's going on. Any opinions?
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Honestly, some guys are just so nervous, (especially if they like the girl a lot), and even though he knows you like him..he might be super shy to even ask. Then again, it's possible maybe he just views you as a friend? You won't know any of this unless you ask him yourself. Believe me, I've learned that you have to hear it for yourself..not from friends. Just ask him how he feels about you..if he say's he likes you a lot. Then, maybe you should try asking him out to make it easier on him. You both seem to have a lot of chemistry..which is great! Just find out for yourself if he really does like you or not! Seems to me like he does! :)
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Hey.
I think you are stressing out. I remember when I was in a similar situation. I liked him, he liked me, everything was great. So...why wasn't he asking me out? You've figured it out for yourself when you said that he wants to hang out with you more. That's probably it. The guy I liked did eventually ask me out. He was just looking for the right time, and not to mention how nervous he was. It really does take a lot of courage to ask a person out and so even if he knows you like him, he might still want to wait a little. And plus there's no rush! :) Everything is going to work out fine. But if you want to speed up the process you might want to hang out with him more and try to be around him alone. Given the situation he might just do it. Good Luck!! <3
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