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frenemies (kinda long, sorry)
alright. im basically goin to give you some background information to kind of understand my problem. i pretty much have a group of 5 best friends and myself. we're known as 'the girls' and weve all been friends for a while.
ill call them L & S, my bestest friends, B & R, two that im super close to in the group... and then there is P.
P is the most flirtacious, bitchy girl but somehow shes manipulative enough to get everyone on her side. i used to be pretty good friends with her, i thought. but then i started noticin that she flirts with my boyfriend, gives head for rides, has soo many 'friends with benefits', i think you get the point.
ive heard from L & M that shes all like 'T (me) means nothin to me because she ditched us for her boyfriend.' which i havent, ive just had some problems with chillin at L's house all the time. (all we do is party there) and shes just like 'ughh T' whenever someone brings me up. L & M say the stick up for me.
L & S are the only ones who share the same view on P as i do. but we dont want to disrupt the group by startin stuff with her. but i cant take it anymore ! she makes me want to choke her everytime i see her. but she acts so nice to me to my face so i just return it to, once again, not disrupt anythin.
i know that i should confront her, but id have to see her a lot still and get shit from her all the time through my real friends.
what do i do !?! thanks sooo much.
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I think you need to ask her what her problem is with you exactly. Maybe if you just took her aside one day and talked to her about the situation, then you could find some common ground. I know you don't want to cause problems, but there are ways to confront her without being mean or rude. You should tell her politely (without mentioning any names) that you know that she has a problem with you and you would like to know why. Or maybe tell her that you feel like she doesn't really like you and is only pretending to. Something along those lines. She might deny it in which case I would just let it go or she might actually admit to it. Communication is the best way to fix any problem. And you probably should communicate before you get any more violent urges to choke her, haha. I hope it goes well. Good Luck! <3
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