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Is it me?Or is love over rated?
I don't know why,but my love life is a disaster.I don't know why I don't have a boyfriend.I am good-looking and smart,also a nice and friendly person,but no guy seems interested in me.No matter how hard I try no one likes me.So,the question is-what am I doing wrong?Is it me or something else?
I'm a 15 year old girl btw and I don't know what to do,I'm quite depressed about this whole thing.
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Honestly, it's not you! A lot of girls I know have that problem. It's the guys. Younger guys tend to go for girls who are "easy". Many guys, especially at your age, aren't interested in anything but sex. For instance, guys may think you're pretty and smart and everything..but they'll go for a girl who has no confidence and would easily have sex with them. You don't want that, it's a guys way of taking advantage of you. There's nothing wrong with you at all. I even had the same problem. One day you will find a guy who loves you for you. Don't ever settle for less! It's good to be confident in yourself! Don't be depressed..a lot of people even wait until after high school to have a boyfriend..less drama and everything. But, if you want a boyfriend..why not try asking a guy you like out? It's worth a try. Some guys prefer when women ask them out. It makes the guys feel better that they don't have to do all the work. Just remember, it's not the end of the world if you don't have a boyfriend!
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Well, from the way you tell it, it looks like you've got some confidence. That's super (: It's awesome that you can pick out specifics that are good qualities about yourself, regardless of how things are going. Just think, there are a lot of people who can't do that. Now, I'm certainly not going to tell you that you're too young for a relationship or go down that road with my advice. Instead, I'll give you my story. I'm 16 years old, and I had a girlfriend a few months before I turned 15. We dated for almost a year, then we were on and off for quite some time. We were absolutely perfect together, and I'm sure I was in love with her. But it ended horribly, and that led to some serious issues for the both of us. This is a very common story among thousands of teens all over the world, as you probably know. But, as I learned from experience, it's so much easier to imagine heartbreak than it is to deal with it. So, maybe, you should consider yourself lucky enough to be skipping all of that. Sure, it's great to have someone you're in tune with, but all great things must end. And I will tell you this, you're young, and you have plenty of time to find someone to be compatible with. And you shouldn't worry about "trying to hard", because really, you shouldn't have to try at all. Sure, you can go out and try to find love, but TRUE love always finds you. So don't get yourself down for being single. All it means is that the right one hasn't come along yet. Just keep being the adorable, charming young lady you've made yourself out to be, and it will all work out for you when the time is right. For now, just enjoy being single. It has it's perks!
Best wishes,
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you may be tryin too hard, and stressin yourself about it will not make it any easier. im the same age as you and i was always always lookin for somethin i could seem to never find. and then i told myself that i cant keep lookin and worryin because that will only make myself feel lonelier. 3 months after i found the man of my dreams :)
you just need to be yourself, dont try so hard to make guys like you. dont worry about the guys, let love find you. youre young ! enjoy your friends and doin things for yourself before you get older when you should be worryin about findin a guy. if it doesnt happen, it doesnt happen. everythin happens for a reason. someone will find you, just dont waste your time tryin to find him.
hang out with the girls, do some fun sports or activities, keep a journal, make a to-do list, volunteer places. just keep yourself busy.
good luck hun
x sweeethoney
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well, are you being yourself?
you might not be happy with who you are.
be just carefree!
don't care!
be proud to be single and able to flirt!
not many girls get to do that with boyfriends.
just go out and have fun, don't worry about boys or anything.
just enjoy life, and the right guy will come a long.
your very young, theres tons more years!
good luck(:
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