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BFF? or BF?
Okay so I have this guy friend that I've been friends with since like before kindergarden, no lie! We had the whole first kiss in first grade thing, and stayed extremely close! Then in middle school we drifted apart. We were in the same classes in 8th grade and sat next to eachother in every class. We have the same sense of cruel humor, and make fun of everyone, haha. Last week we met eachother at the rope swing by the river (I know that sounds really country haha) swam and did all that, and when the sun was sitting he sang the song Then by Brad Paisley. We've told eachother we have strong feelings for eachother, but can't decide whether or not to stay friends or become an item. Help?
14/f
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I think you should go out on a couple of dates first. Then if that goes well which it should, then be a couple. I see a lot of pro's and no con's
1. He seems like a good guy
2. You've know him since forever
3. Same sense of humor
4. Have been friends for a long time (Gives the relationship a much better chance at working)
5. And it seems like you can already trust him which is awesome
GL
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Think is he worth giving up becuase most likly yall wont last for the rest of yalls life so when you and him do break up , is he worth not being friends with,because usually ex's arent friends . Or give it a shot maby yall can last for the rest of yalls life . But just think of the negatives and postives
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I think you should try dating. Don't make it something super serious, but do take it to the next level.
It IS obvious that you care about each other, and it sounds like you have a lot of chemistry, so why NOT try it out?
-Laura (17-f)
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It is pretty obvious you both care for each other! And you should definatly become an 'item'! Make a pack that if it doesn't work out to go back to being friends! Why not give it a try. Just remeber to be honest, that way if you descide to just be friends, things will be the same as they are now.
-good luck, and by the sounds of it he has already got you your song!!!
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