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I messed up
I had sex with my girl and she thought I tricked her and didnt wear a condom but in reality it slipped off. I was pissed at her for not letting me explain and I told a lot of people which pissed her off. I know she will eventually get over it but what do I say to her to let her know Im sorry?
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Biq Mistakee . Just prove to her yur sorry and keep tryinq to exsplain to her and just dot let it happen again bc thats the worse thing yu can do is tell people
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umm. first of all getting mad at her was the wrong thing to do. she has the right to be angry. i also have had ex-boyfriend who has done that to me and i was pissed! i understand where she is coming from. just give her some time to cool down and write her a letter. that is romantic and it also gives you a chance to explain things. write how sorry you are and that you will wait for her until she is cool enough to speak to you, you should also apologize for getting pissed off and telling ppl. explain that you just didnt know what to do, and you were looking for advice, that you cant stand to think of her being mad at you for this. (trust me, it will work)i also suggest you write a poem. it will mos def work and she will snap out of it in a second.
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Well first off, it would be good to recognize anything you did wrong. I personally dont think thats really anybody else's buisness except for yours and hers, which quite frankly would make me upset too knowing that you told alot of people. Right now all she needs is time, but instead of looking at the situation as "oh she will get over it" , it might be a good idea to understand where she is coming from, and comfort her and (when she is ready to listen) tell her that it was an accident, and you will be alot more careful next time. But you need to mean it, as a girl, I can tell you straight off the bat that we girls can tell if you mean what you say. :-) Own up to what you did when the time is right, and if you are sincere and appologetic, she will come around.
good luck
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