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sexist boys
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 7:16 pm
So something happened the other day with my boyfriend that kind of upset me for some reason. We were just messing around, like play-wrestling, and he pinned me and I was laughing and stuff and hes like "Okay try to get up." And I giggled and was like "Ha-ha, okay." and so I tried and I couldn't. And at first I was just like oh whatever, giggle-giggle. And then I tried again and I couldn't and I got really frustrated even though we were just playing and I was like "Okay, let me up." And he did, but he could see that I was suddenly sour, so he says "What's wrong?" and I was like "Why aren't I strong?" and he says "Awh baby, you're strong, just not as strong as me." and I said "W...
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How should I ask her out?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 6:12 pm
Me and this girl have been friends for quite awhile but now to the point where we're talking every single day and A LOT. I am totally falling for her and I want to ask her to be my girlfriend. How should I ask her? Please be specific, like how to start the conversation and stuff!!!
Like should I just straight up tell her?
Should I ask her if she likes me, and if she says yes then profess my feelings?
Please help! And PS, even if she doesn't like me back, I would like to still be friends with her, so is there a way to ensure that?
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i keep getting man-handled
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 5:26 pm
Right well, im 15 and im a girl, but see, im really small. Like short, little, skinny, i dont know, just small. I get "awwh!"s its SO annoying but whatever, thats not my question. I wasnt really sure where to put this, but i guess since my crush does this too, i put it here. So i guess since im little, the guys i know think its okay to just man-handle me or something, i dont know. Its wierd. When they want to get me to move, like out of a doorway for instance, instead of just saying "excuse me" like they would for any other girl, they literally pick me up and place me out of the way. Its soooooo aggrivating. I give the whole firm "no" thing and im serious about it, and I ask them to stop but it doesnt. And its ...
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gotta get over him
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 4:47 pm
So I am 20 and crazy about my best friend. He knows I like him, and he admitted that he has feelings for me too. Unfortunately he has a girlfriend. He was having serious problems with her though and kept telling me he was going to break-up with her. We weren't planning on dating when he broke up with her....at least not right away.
I was talking to him today and he said things were going a lot better with her, and now they probably wont break up.
So I am totally bummed now. I just feel like crying. How do I get over him?
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what does bj and hj mean?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:07 pm
what does bj and hj mean?
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is this good ?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 3:07 am
my boyfriend sent me a text saying, "btw really random but you have the sofest lipes ever created"
... hahaa so is that good ?
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my boyfriend
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:36 am
Okay, my boyfriend of almost 3 months, he's kind of my first kiss, but not. because I don't count my first, since it was 2 seconds with my ex, I hated it, and was pretty much forced into kissing him. The first time I kissed my boyfriend, he didn't pressure me, knew about what happened with my ex and like, it was amazing. I was about to leave his house and i asked hi what he was thinking about, he said, "you." and i said, "what about me?" and he replied with, "just you." then i said, "what do you want?" and he said, "I want to kiss you." then he lifted up my chin up and kissed me. it was always how i wanted my first kiss to be :] [technical first kiss haha] then i got up and so did he and i p...
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How do I tell him no?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:18 am
Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl, and my boyfriend (17) and I have been going out for like a year now. I'm crazy about him, but theres one problem. He really wants to have sex and I don't. He knows that I want to wait for marriage but he can't understand why... I've tried to explain that its what I believe, and that its what I want, and also that I think I'm too young and not ready, but he just doesn't get it. Its not like hes pressuring me or anything, but I really want to know how I can make him understand how I feel. Thanks!
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But he's my best friend.....
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:05 am
20/f So...I am absolutely crazy about my best friend.
we have been best friends for about 6 years and i have had feelings for him off and on throughout that entire time. But right now he has a gf. she is super controlling and hates me cuz we are so close (like, we finish each others sentences and it drives her nuts). he says he wants to dump her, but then chickens out.
I am so crazy about this guy...and even though he has a gf, i think he cares about me too. I want to be with him....what do i do?
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present?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:04 am
my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we really love eachother and he goes threw soo much for me just an example, i have had cancer and ben hospitalized so many times for bein psycho and it hurts him so bad as hes ben with me threw it all.. we're both 15 nearly
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year present?
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 12:01 am
my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we really love eachother and he goes threw soo much for me just an example, i have had cancer and ben hospitalized so many times for bein psycho and it hurts him so bad as hes ben with me threw it all.. we're both 15 nearly 16
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year annivarsary present?
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 11:58 pm
my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we're both 15 nearly 16
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"LOVE YOU"....best friend.
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 11:57 pm
19/female. my best friend is 18/m
i have a lot of love for my best friend!
we've been friends for like 6 years now.
i have a crush on him too =p
but anyways! how can i tell him that i like, love him. i'm not IN love with him, but i love him as my best friend!?
i don't want to just say like "i love you" because that will probably come off wrong to him.
i hope you guys understand!
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Why don't guys text you when they say they will?!?
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 11:24 pm
It's soo annoying. This guy who I'm friends wit, on friday, said he'd text me on Sunday. So, I was waiting for a text..and got nothing. I hate always having to text first. Why do guys do that!?!?!
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he keeps coming back
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 8:15 pm
Sorry in advance if this is a bit long.
16/f
I was with a boy for 7 months. Our relationship was great. We loved each other. However, he told me that he felt like he couldn't make me happy and I deserved better and dumped me. He broke my heart, however eventually I moved on and got over it. 5 Months pass by and he decides to re enter my life! Wanting to give things another try. I lost my virginity to this guy, therefore I feel so attached to him. I take him back and give him another try.
The 2 months we're together is awful. He didn't treat me nicely and refused to tell me he loved me. I told him we should end it. Another 2 months goes by.. and guess who decides to enter my life AGAIN! I was firm with hi...
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jealous! :(
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 7:55 pm
okay so i like my best friend. he currently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years. i've always heard he liked this girl who i am not fond of, her name is sammy. i just think he could do SO much better.
so i always ask if anything is going on between him and he says no, but you know when you can just tell? i feel like thats how it is...
last night i was with him and was like can i see your phone and he was like noooo!!(: and i was like why not. and he was like why so you can see if i was texting sammy? and he was like we're just best friends. and i was like OHHHH so now she's your best friend? guess were not best friends anymore. and he was like no linds, we are. me and her are just FRIENDS.
and...
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It's been four years, and now I feel like he doesn't belong in my life
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 3:02 pm
21/f. He's 24/m. We've have been involved for four years. REALLY long story short, it's been a rough road for us. He used to be emotionally abusive, but he made a conscious decision to change. I agreed to let the past go, and forgive him. It was great for a long time, and despite his family hating me, we were happy.
Recently, I got a job in my field. Instead of being happy for me when I told him about the pay, he said, "That's it? You should turn it down."
Now when I try to tell him funny stories about work, he says "sweet" with no inflection, and changes the subject. He makes a point of letting me know I'm "not funny" when I try to joke around, or he thinks I'm serious when I'm not. He suddenly ...
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i don't want to sound obsessive?
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 2:56 pm
theres this guy i like and ive known him for awhile and since my boyfriend and i just ended out relationship he started talking to me alot when he signs onto AIM it takes him about 6 seconds to IM me.. i actually counted one day when i saw him IM me lol. anyways and he always asks me to call him at night and were on the phone for at least an hour or more and ill usually text him when hes at work and we talk for awhile then to.. well since i just came out of a relationship i dont want to seem like.. i really like this guy, but i kinda do and sometimes he says that it doesnt sound like im intrested in talking to him, when i really am so thats my first question.. how do i sound interested without sounding like not obsessive but.. really like h...
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getting back together..
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 1:51 pm
my boyfriend and i just broke up after 9 months, i broke up with him.
well before i dated my boyfriend my ex and i dated for 8 months and i broke up with him to, and he was devestated and i know he really loved me and he was heartbroken for months and i told him it was because i just wasn't feeling it anymore but i was.. i left him because i was scared to get my heartbroken because i honestly loved him and ive had my heart broken before that and i couldn't stand to have it happen again and so i guess i broke up with him before he could brake up with me, but i don't know why because i know he loved me and wouldn't have broken up with me, we never had one fight the whole 8 months we dated well now im single and so is he and we...
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Recurrent Dream...Help
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 1:20 pm
Hello, well I've been having a recurrent dream, not so much the same dream but the same subject. I have a boyfriend, I'm happy we have been together for one year. We are engaged to get married in a couple years, so it's pretty serious. Before him I had trouble relationships, but there was one relationship that I have to admit left me scarred. My first boyfriend. Him and I loved eachother very much while we were dating. My parents didnt want us together, especially my mother, he even cried to her. We did not have a very long relationship because we had an issue that forced me to break up with him.(Not cheating issue just another) But our connection did not end after that, It took me a while to move on and have another relationship, after him...
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