So I am 20 and crazy about my best friend. He knows I like him, and he admitted that he has feelings for me too. Unfortunately he has a girlfriend. He was having serious problems with her though and kept telling me he was going to break-up with her. We weren't planning on dating when he broke up with her....at least not right away.
I was talking to him today and he said things were going a lot better with her, and now they probably wont break up.
So I am totally bummed now. I just feel like crying. How do I get over him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TikleTheCripple answered Tuesday August 11 2009, 3:09 pm: you dont need a guy like that.
you need someone who will choose you first and if he is already dating someone else that should be a red flag that he may be prone to cheating if told you he had feelings for you too. you need someone who will be dedicated to you and only you--not someone who isnt sure of how they feel between two different women. be confident in yourself and dont settle for less than what you deserve. you have your whole life to figure out exactly what you want in a man and when u want to settle down. dont focus on this guy. stay friends but remember--he chose the other girl-his girlfriend. you are worth all of someones time and heart-not half!
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