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did i do the right thing?
Posted Saturday September 5 2009, 12:25 am
okay so there is this guy who is a year older than me who i've never talked to on my facebook. he commented on two of my posts and then one day i saw him at aa bus stop i didnt say hi or anything because i wasnt sure he would know who i was. then the next day on facebook i'm like "hey i saw you at the bus stop. i was the girl in the green shirt" and he was like " that was you i was totally checking you out." then i replied and after that he's like do you want to hang out. i got alittle uncomfortable because i dont know anything about this guy so i told him i had to work. now his facebook status is like "i'm falling for someone i hope" i kind of feel like ugh i kind have hung out with him but i missed my chance....
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rendevoux?
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 11:56 pm
Ok i kinda snooped my bf of 4 years facebook inbox (it was an honest mistake it autologged him in and i thought it was me and saw a new one in the inbox but didn't bother looking at who was signed in until i was reading something i didn't want to read ... ugh)
Anyways, i found a conversation back and forth between him and his ex (who he dated about 2 years before meeting me). They were talking about how they still had sexual dreams about each other. Well she is single now and as i kept reading (by this point i didn't want to miss a detail ...) i saw her ask "do you think we should do something about these dreams?" and he sent her back "Like what?" and she replied with "Act on them ..."
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Guys...What went wrong?
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 10:47 pm
female/ 16/ senior
So, since the start of July I started to "talk" to this guy. He's 18,and a freshman in college this september. He made it clear that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship because he wasn't sure if he was going to meet someone in college. The college is literally 5 minutes away from my house. Anyways, we would text eachother every single day. I liked him alot and I was sooo sure he did too,just that gut instinct. He told me he liked me but he didn't know how much. So all of a sudden, last week; he just stops texting me. Then, when he finally decides to text me, he stops responding to me after 2 texts. So, 2 days ago I decided I don't have time to deal with immature guys. I told him, w...
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just friendss ?
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 10:26 pm
hey, so my best friend is also an ex boyfriend. we dated for 5 months about 2 1/2 years ago, and we've been best friends since then. we really ar BEST rfiends, like practically family. we go on vacation together and everything. my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend unti lwe started dating, knows that i dated this guy and he gets really mad when i hang out with him. and i hang out with him a LOT, but i have no feelings fo rhim. i only have feelings for my boyfriend. but anyway, my boyfriend has a best friend whos a girl. they were together for a little while and they had sex, and she fell in love with him. he wasnt in love with her but he liked her a lot. shes still in love with him and he knows that. but they still text 24/7 and talk ...
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How do I get over an ex that wants to be friends now?
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 8:17 pm
So, it has been 6 months since my ex of 4 years and I broke up. It has been very difficult to move on but have been doing the best I can.
I took all the necessary steps in mending my heart from the break-up. I've been hanging out with friends most often, getting in touch with old buddies, and also have been going out whenever the opportunity presents itself. I have even dated a few guys since my ex but haven't had much of a serious connection with anyone.
Just recently I have started talking to my ex again online and we have decided to be friends. So far it has just been casual conversation, nothing to indicate that he still has feelings for me. The conversation is usually pretty light and friendly so it's c...
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how to give a guy a boner
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 12:37 pm
just wondering, haha..
how can you give your guy a boner without touching him?
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tattoo's
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 1:28 am
so me and my boyfriend decided to get each other names tattooed on each other but i have a tatt on one wrist and neck already! i was wondering where would be a cute place for us to get them?? oh yea i also have a lil pudgey tummy so not there !
thanks =]
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attracted to players
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 12:48 am
nineteen, female.
why is it that i always fall for the players who always cheat on their girlfriends? why am i always so attracted to them, when i know that if i ever got close to them that there going to end up hurting me! i just dont know why i go for them, i do not think cheating is rigth in ANY way, but yet i still like the ones who do it to others? it doesnt make sense to me, yet it happens all the time
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he doesn't believe in titles
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 11:24 pm
What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't believe in tittles? Like as in boyfriend or girlfriend
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What does he expect?
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 10:57 pm
My boyfriend and I have a great relationship, we're 4 hours apart right now because of college but we talk all the time. By this I mean texting until the moment we wake up to the moment we go to bed. Then every night around 8 he'll ask me what I'm doing and I'm normally not doing anything and then he asks me to call him, so I always do and then we get on the phone, have a conversation for about 5 minutes and then there's nothing left to talk about because we talked all day. Then he gets this slightly annoyed tone in his voice because I have nothing to talk about! I don't know what to do. If I said I didn't feel like talking I know he'd take it personally and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to have phone conversations wher...
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friends zone,
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 10:45 pm
heey
okaay i have know thius guy ( lets call him p) for 2 years and we are now in the same school. we hung out a few times over the summer and i began to like him, hes in grade 11 and im in 10. its the 4th day of school and we saw each other a couple times and waved and said hi and talked a ltitle. he tells me pretty much everything about his firends and about girls hees ahving troubles with and i flirt, not a lot, but i still do and he wants to hang out a couple times a month and we do and we get a long good . but duunnno, i think he sees me more as a friend. and i wanna know how to tell this? and if i am in the "friends zone" what do i do! and how do i get out ?
heeelllpppppp pleeeasse =(
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heart broken
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 8:48 pm
17/f
youve probably never heard of something like this but neither have i thats why its so hard for me to deal with. me and my bf have been dating for 2 years, and hes schitzophrenic. its not that bad yet because its inthe early stages. but you can still tell because we have ALOT of ups and downs in our relationship mostly caused by his mood swings and paranoia. but lately it has gotten so bad and he is so paranoid about everything. he doesnt believe that i love him and he trusts no1. he says that he just has this feeling that i dont love him and why eould anyone? i was fine with that because we were still close but now he wants to cut me out of his life completely. he says that he needs to stop talking to me because he is too depen...
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Was I raped??
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 3:22 pm
Ok so i'm 18 years old. And im there's something that's been bugging me for the last 4 years. I don't know and i'm confused. See, i was dating this boy and he wanted to have sex. I was a virgin so i was kinda nervous and kept talling him no. This persisted for about a month where i kept saying no and no. But eventually he convinced me that no harm would be done if i was naked. i was stupid and thought that if i gave in and just got undressed maybe he'd drop it and stop asking me for sex. Anyways, we started making out and u got uncomfortable because i felt his hand gtouching my thigh. Then his fingers went inside me. I didn't say anything because it felt good. Well then he got on top of me and said. "Let me put it in you" i got ne...
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i cant seem to show im that i like him back :/
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 2:48 pm
i reeally like this guy and im 95 % sure he likes me back because he keeps showing me. the thing is that im really shy and cant seem to give him the signs that i like him back :/ and sometimes i do really dumb things, like today i just left without saying goodbye, and when i realized i turned around to him and he looked at me really sad and turned away. the thing is that hes always soo sweet to me and talks to me whenever he can, and im always weird because im so nervous because i like this guy more then i liked anyone before, i just cant seem to show it, i think im afraid?
what should i do?
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does he like me :/
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 12:48 pm
so there is this boy in the year above me in school who i really like sometimes i say ''hey'' on msn and the usuall stuff but he never says anything after ''yeh in good thanks you ?'' and when he see's me around school he always looks at me but i dont no if he is looking at me like he likes me or he just thinks im strange or what but today i walked past him and he was sat talking to some girls in my year but the girls are them type of girls who allways look good and as some people call then the year slags but when he sat with them he looked liked he was having loads of fun an tbh it broke my heart and he is not even going out with me what shall i do :/
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I feel like no matter what Im stuck
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 12:41 pm
Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 yrs now. And im a girl too btw. We have been living together for about 2 first at her parents but the past year we've had your own place. We've been having problems for the past I couldnt even tell you how long. i know that both of us dont feel the same about each other. We agreed a week ago that we would try to be "just friends" for a while to see if anything improved. So we havent been kissing or anything intimate like that or even seeing each other naked because friends dont do that. Well last night we were sleeping and she pulled me to her and we started having sex. I was skeptical bc I didnt want it to just be sex but I went thru with it anyway. Now I asked her about it tod...
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What does my dream about making out with my high school teacher mean?
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 10:18 am
Okay this is kinda hard to write. Thank god this is anonymous! Like he was my teacher last year for a class, and like he's a cool teacher and people respected him and stuff. like it was the funnest class in my day. but like after a couple months like i kinda got a crush on him.. like it just sort of creeped up. its so gross though to like think like that though, and he's married and everything. i blame it on the fact that hes in his mid/late 20s. so anyways, in the dream like i went to my school's office and had to make a call or something and he was there and we end up talking and laughing and stuff. like we did get along, IRL. but it was like we were old friends or something in the dream, not like a normal teacher/student relationship. an...
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comming out
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 10:11 am
So I am a girl and I am in my first relationship with a girl. We have been dating for about 3 months. Well none of my family knows and I feel im not being true to my girlfriend because they dont know. Like when I stay at her house I tell my mom im somewhere else. I am scared to see there reactions but I am in love with the girl. They say its hard comming out but how can I deal with this? She wants us to get our own place too.
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Romantic weekend
Posted Thursday September 3 2009, 12:04 am
I'll be staying at my boyfriend's house from Friday night to Monday morning and I haven't seen him in a few weeks thanks to college. This is our first reunion and the last time we'll get to hang out before he goes to college in mid-September. It's also close to our 7 month anniversary so I want to plan a really extra special weekend and have it be really romantic and memorable.
We like adventure, food, movies, we are sexually active and we're up for anything.
I really want to remember this weekend because I rarely get to spend the night and this weekend my mom is letting me stay over for 3 nights (long story).
Any ideas or help with planning?
Thanks!
=)
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My cousin
Posted Wednesday September 2 2009, 11:47 pm
So my cousin is devastated because her fiance broke up with her after almost 4 years together...
I know that I can't really help her the way she wants me too and I know she will get through this but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of things she can do that will help her feel better even for a moment? Like when I was heart broken I started coming on here and giving advice because it took my mind off of my problems (I already sugested it...she shot it down) I also liked to read quotes and listen to songs that described how I was feeling (I don't know why but it made me feel better)
tell me stories about what you did to make yourself happy when you were heartbroken so I can get some ideas to help her.
Thanks
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