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Guys...What went wrong?
female/ 16/ senior
So, since the start of July I started to "talk" to this guy. He's 18,and a freshman in college this september. He made it clear that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship because he wasn't sure if he was going to meet someone in college. The college is literally 5 minutes away from my house. Anyways, we would text eachother every single day. I liked him alot and I was sooo sure he did too,just that gut instinct. He told me he liked me but he didn't know how much. So all of a sudden, last week; he just stops texting me. Then, when he finally decides to text me, he stops responding to me after 2 texts. So, 2 days ago I decided I don't have time to deal with immature guys. I told him, we should stop talking and he said he didn't want us to stop talking. well it sure seems like he wanted us to. he told me to wait 3 weeks and he would decide what he wants. wtf. no.
What do you think about all of this? Do you think he's playing a game? Or he really doesn't know what he's doing wrong?
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He did tell you that he wasn't sure weather he would meet someone in college. And to his credit adleast he told you that up front.So you came into the relationship already with that knowledge, and nine times out of ten he proably have meet someone else. And if so, he needs to tell you and not lead you on because... That's wrong on his part... Usually when theres change in a relationship especially communication wise... Theres someone else in the picture and you need to thimk to yourself is it worth the heartbreak... The best of luck to you
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You should not wait that long if you don't think he is worth waiting for. You should tell him he got's a day, or how ever more long you want to wait, to make up his mind or your done.
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Hi there..
Just a suggestion... Maybe he's met someone and is testing her out, you know, to see if things work out. He's obviously given her a 3 week trial.
I think you should definitely tell this guy that your not all about waiting for when and if he thinks the time is right. I'd have a serious chat with this guy..
Tell him that you feel you are being pulled along and although you are attracted to him you deserve better then what he's given you.
He's definitely not worth it if he can't decide right now if he wants you or not!!
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