hey, so my best friend is also an ex boyfriend. we dated for 5 months about 2 1/2 years ago, and we've been best friends since then. we really ar BEST rfiends, like practically family. we go on vacation together and everything. my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend unti lwe started dating, knows that i dated this guy and he gets really mad when i hang out with him. and i hang out with him a LOT, but i have no feelings fo rhim. i only have feelings for my boyfriend. but anyway, my boyfriend has a best friend whos a girl. they were together for a little while and they had sex, and she fell in love with him. he wasnt in love with her but he liked her a lot. shes still in love with him and he knows that. but they still text 24/7 and talk on the phone sometimes and theyre really close. when me and him fight he always goes to her and tells her everything and i feel like he flirts with her soemtimes but idk. i get really jealus when theyre talking or hanging out or something. so idk, is it like the same thing me and my best friend and him and his best friend?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Debbie235 answered Sunday September 6 2009, 1:38 am: Very complicated. First and formost, it's natrual sometimes when a bestfriend get a little jealous when you are in a relationship and hanging out alot. It's a hard change and sometimes they haveto get adjusted to it but, your bff is an ex, and there could still be feelings... That's something you two have to really talk about because if your freiends harbor any feelings your friendship can grow really unhealthy... On the other hand your BF is friends with his ex and... she loves him... but you can't really get to mad because you're kinda in the same siuation... And honestly if you to have any chance of a healthy relationship in the future... You both might have to end your friendships... But then again you have to decide is each other really worth it... The best of luck to you [ Debbie235's advice column | Ask Debbie235 A Question ]
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