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friends zone,
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okaay i have know thius guy ( lets call him p) for 2 years and we are now in the same school. we hung out a few times over the summer and i began to like him, hes in grade 11 and im in 10. its the 4th day of school and we saw each other a couple times and waved and said hi and talked a ltitle. he tells me pretty much everything about his firends and about girls hees ahving troubles with and i flirt, not a lot, but i still do and he wants to hang out a couple times a month and we do and we get a long good . but duunnno, i think he sees me more as a friend. and i wanna know how to tell this? and if i am in the "friends zone" what do i do! and how do i get out ?
heeelllpppppp pleeeasse =(
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Aw this is cute!
Ok here goes....
You're in the friends zone for a couple of reasons. One of them is that you're listening to all his problems: "he tells me pretty much everything about his firends and about girls hees ahving troubles with" STOP IT! THIS IS A BIG NO! When he starts complaining and saying too much you cut it off! Don't be rude, just conveniently say that you have to go, or you'll talk to him later cause you gotta go to work/do homework/mom's on the phone etc. This one of the biggest reasons he sees you as a friend.
2nd...STEP UP THE FLIRTING! guys like it. Don't go overboard with the flirting cause that's when it becomes annoying, but I'm sure there are other things you can start doing.... laughing more etc. (since you didn't specify how you flirt, I can't really help you out on that)
3rd... Guys like chases, it's fun. BECOME UNAVAILABLE! If he wants to see you, say you cant! You're busy with friends etc. He needs to know that you're not at his beck and call, you have a life! And when you tell him you have something to do, actually do it, like "I'm hanging out with John Doe today so I can't hang out, sorry" and make sure you do this, this way you're not tempted to talk to him and make plans =p He needs to get jealous that you're not his only priority! If you hang out with him everytime he asks, you'll just go back to step one with the friends zone.
Good luck!
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