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emotionally unavailable
Posted Friday September 18 2009, 5:50 pm
Ok, I'm 21/F and have a pretty good life. I have a few good friends, a great family and go to college. The problem is, I am extremely closed off. I don't let anyone get too close. If I feel a guy or even a friend is trying to get closer, I back off or start to become a big bitch. I have been hurt in the past badly, but I'm not even sure if that's why I am this way. My mom even says I have this big wall in front of me and haven't dropped my guard down for years. I'm terrified I'm going to always be alone because of this. I do attract many good guys, but as soon as they find out how emotionally unavailable I am, they get frustrated and back off. My friends have said that I won't even let them get too close. What am I supposed to do? I want to...
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i like a guy and i am ignoring him..he is not responding...REALLY IMPORTANT
Posted Friday September 18 2009, 3:59 pm
okay..so i like this guy in my school, he is 16 and i am 15. you may think this is nuts but around 2 years ago back when i was 13. i seen the same boy walking in the hallyway and i just immediately got attracted to him..i didnt even know his name but i knew he was friend with this boy that i am kinda friends with, so school is almost ending and i wasnt ever able to go up to him and actually start a conversation. so with the friendly myspace i went on my friends myspace friends list and found him. i added him as my friend and we started talking a little bit....but later i would message him and we would have non-stop conversations about the wierdest things, that made me like him more because i felt like we completely bonded. i want a boyfrien...
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Long Distance Relationships
Posted Friday September 18 2009, 7:33 am
What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
xx
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Too soon??
Posted Friday September 18 2009, 7:10 am
I just broke up with my Ex... 3 days ago...
This other guy, whom I've REALLY, REALLY liked for
AGEESSS!!!! asked me out today, I told him I'd let
him know.
Do you think it's too soon to be with somebody else?
Because I really care about this new dude... And
have very few feelings for my ex.
What's your view on the situation?
xx
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Hopeless Romantic (kinda long, sorry)
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 9:36 pm
Female 15, Softmor in High school. Seth (my best friend/crush) is 18, Senior in High school. We live in USA, VA.
Me and Seth have been besties for 2 years now. My crush on him makes me wonder if it'd ever work out, when were out & about together people always say that we look like a couple. He doesn't know I like him, yet. I know there might be issues like: Maturity, Age/legal stuff, ect. But we are so close... I can't help but wonder, a few people say the odds are I've fallen in love. Not only that, his younger sister Lily keeps telling me that we look like a married couple >.< and of course he always responds with a half-smile on his face. Does that mean he likes me back?? So, my two questions are: 'Does he like me?' an...
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how to
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 7:53 pm
I hate my life right now Im always tired stressed out and lonely. Theirs no one to talk to about my problems I have plenty of friends but they have their own problems to worry about. Most of the time we are all doign our on thing unless we are drinking together. My other friends have boy friends that they are always with I dont trust guys thats why I havnt been close to a guy since my last boy friend who abused me physically and mentally we broke up 7 months ago. I am beautiful and every guy wants me becasue Im hot but they dont take the time our of their day to make a connection with me other than sexually. I am not a whore I have only been with 2 guys the second guy got with me after telling me he wants a relationship but now he doesnt ta...
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this girl confuses me
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 7:28 pm
sorry iv asked a lot of questions bout this girl but i want things to work out. so like we have established that we like eachother in texts but how come in person she doesnt act like it at all? like is it because im like not out yet or something?
PS im a girll
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Is it possible to fallin LOVE when you're about 12-13 years old?
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 6:04 pm
Now that I am or anything, I swear I'm not that young, but I'm just curious :)
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how to catch certain guy's attention?
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:08 pm
16/f/UK.
So I started college a couple weeks ago, & there's a guy I really like there. Basically I want to get his attention but I'm not sure how to do it.
The first day I met him I sat down opposite him in a class & as we didn't know anyone around us, we worked together. He was really friendly & smiled at me a lot, & I noticed him looking over at me a lot.
We had a few classes together, & I'd catch him looking at me a lot. I'd notice him staring at me whenever I walked into a room. Later, we had a class together, & he came & sat near me, even though he already had a really good seat in another room & we were talking and I'd often make him laugh, & when we were...
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i have never had a gf
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:07 pm
im 14 yrs old and i have never had a girlfriend out even got my first kiss. I was wondering what is rong with me?? al my friends have and i havent i feel like such a geek
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what should i do?
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:05 pm
see im dating this guy who doesn;t go to my school the only time i can see him is at upward boun in wytheville and he is black and my family don't know about it because I would get kick out of the house if i told them they believe blacks should stay with their people and we should stay with are people and he is 15 in 9th and im 17 in 11th and i can;t see him when i won;t because of the skin differents and the problem is i still have feelings for a ex of mine who is in 10th and is 16 what should i do.
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sierra
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:01 pm
i have this friend sierra well shes been my best friend ever sence kindergarden and i started dateing this boy robert and i love him so much i think shes geles and robert asked me if i would go to a carnivel with him and i said yes but now sierra wont talk to me eney more what should i do
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triangle
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:01 pm
hi, im 15 female.. a freshamn and i have a few questions for you... frist.. i have a boyfriend ive been going out woth im for almost a week but we havent even talked yet.. he asked me out though myspace but i said yes becuase i know him and liked him. but since we havent talked im starting to think he dosnt like me or it was a joke ( somthing that has happened to me bfor) or maybe he has finaly dicovered how lame i am... what should i do??? and secondly i have this friend.. he is my age and is like my best friend and like a brother to me.. and i think i like him.. i know he likes me because every one tells me he dose and he always gives me hugs and stuff.. but i have a bf and i dont know what to do becasue i tryed dating him when we were in...
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torn between the two
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 2:08 pm
i have been with this guy who is in a wheelchair for two years (almost 3). when we first got together things were wonderful. but now that we have been together we kinda dulled out and became one person. Its my senior year in high school, and all my friends say that i shouldnt be in a serious relationship now and to find myself. which i agree but i dont want to just break up with my boyfriend for that reason. cuz what if there is no one else out there like him. i dont know im so confused, i need serious help.
so stressed. none of my friends are getting along, so much drama. everyone is mad at each other. my boyfriend dont like my friends anyways.
please someone tell me what to do.
i dont know ho...
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does he like me or not? i thought he likes his ex?!
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 12:59 pm
thing is that i like this guy who recently told me he still has feelings for his ex. yet he always seems to act like he likes me? i mean he told me that yesterday he looked for me during the whole break (which is 30 minutes long), he always aks me where i am and talks to me whenever he sees me. he often asks me where i am in the break and looks for me. and when we walk together he always touches my arm etc. and when he sits next to me he always sits as close to me as he can. i mean i was convinced that he likes me until he told me he likes is ex. i dont want to be his second choice but i reeaally like him sooo much <3 what should i do?
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age difference?
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 3:09 am
is it okay for a 19 year old to date a 24 year old? just curious to everyone's opinions :) thanks!
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1 guy here, 1 guy there, so confused!
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 3:05 am
ill try and keep this short.
- met a guy here where i live. we get along fine, but sometimes we don't much to talk about nor do we seem to have much fun.
- met a guy online (never internet dated before/kind of against it). real sweet, we webcam all the time, we always have things to say, we make eachother laugh, etc.
i'm so confused, what do i do!?!? i like both guys, but obviously one over the other. but he lives in a different state/havent even met him in person. the other guy lives by me but doesn't fit me like the other guy does.
help! D: thank you guys so much.
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sex
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 2:05 am
im a teenage male.
i want sex, how do i get it.
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Vampires and Werewolves
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 11:21 pm
I know for a fact that Vampires are not supposed to be dating werewolves, but is it ok if the other is rogue? Would the person in charge of the colony/pack kill the two lovers? I would like your help as soon as possible. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN VAMPIRES/WEREWOLVES DO NOT ANSWER!!!
Thanks
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Is it wrong
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 9:38 pm
for a 19 y/o and a 15 y/o to date?
ive already told them that its wrong (at least in my opinion) for them to "do stuff" with each other
but is it wrong for them to just date, if they dont take it further?
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