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what should i do?


Question Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:05 pm

see im dating this guy who doesn;t go to my school the only time i can see him is at upward boun in wytheville and he is black and my family don't know about it because I would get kick out of the house if i told them they believe blacks should stay with their people and we should stay with are people and he is 15 in 9th and im 17 in 11th and i can;t see him when i won;t because of the skin differents and the problem is i still have feelings for a ex of mine who is in 10th and is 16 what should i do.

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JustJessOx answered Thursday September 17 2009, 5:35 pm:
Hey there,
okay well im going to be straight up and honest here and say what I think.
if your having feelings for your ex or anyone else then you shouldnt be even dating this guy should you?
its not fair,its almost as if your leading him on.
it seems to me that all theese complications are making you start to wonder is it worth it?
if not thats the question you need to be asking yourself,is it?
your can rarely see him your family wouldnt aproove and theres an age difference (which usually id say wouldnt matter as much but its still a contributing factor)
Im sorry if im seeming negative but if you had genuine feelings for this guy id say make it work but seeing has you still have feelings for your ex id say let this new relationship go until your ready to move on and fully over your ex.
is this guy worth all this trouble? think about it i think the answer is staring you in the face. but its your choice this is my view on it,i hope i helped in anyway and anymore questions please feel free to inbox
much <3
Jess.
x 16/f

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