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1 guy here, 1 guy there, so confused!
ill try and keep this short.
- met a guy here where i live. we get along fine, but sometimes we don't much to talk about nor do we seem to have much fun.
- met a guy online (never internet dated before/kind of against it). real sweet, we webcam all the time, we always have things to say, we make eachother laugh, etc.
i'm so confused, what do i do!?!? i like both guys, but obviously one over the other. but he lives in a different state/havent even met him in person. the other guy lives by me but doesn't fit me like the other guy does.
help! D: thank you guys so much.
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you don't have to pick a guy right now. honestly. your could wait 5 years and still be unsure about what you want. obviously the guy that lives by you isn't your type or what you are looking for. i would just be friends with him talk to him here and there or not at all. The guys who lives in a different state could be tricky. but a lot of people are doing that site now to meet someone. so internet dating must work sometimes. if you two are truely ment to be together you two will find away to be together everything will just work out. make sure you take your time in getting to know him. internet dating can be very risky.. but since you have seen him on webcam that does make a difference then those you talk to a guy and havent every meet him. take it slow though.. i meet my ex boyfriend online. and meet his cousin through him.. i ended up marrying his cousin. he was jerk. good luck hun.
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It all comes down to what you want in a relationship. Do you want a guy that you can't interact with in person or someone that might not be the one but you can still see and do things with? When I was younger I used to do the whole internet thing but to tell you the truth I got bored very fast. Overtime I wanted someone I could share my memories with, laugh with and be around. You can do these things with the guy on the internet but when you really need someone to talk too he will be there but he will only be there from a screen. The other guy not only is he in person but you have more stability over the relationship than you would if you were to have an online relationship. If you chose the guy from the internet you never really know where the relationship is going on his end for all we know he could very well be lying to you as the internet is full of liars.
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