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I hate my life right now Im always tired stressed out and lonely. Theirs no one to talk to about my problems I have plenty of friends but they have their own problems to worry about. Most of the time we are all doign our on thing unless we are drinking together. My other friends have boy friends that they are always with I dont trust guys thats why I havnt been close to a guy since my last boy friend who abused me physically and mentally we broke up 7 months ago. I am beautiful and every guy wants me becasue Im hot but they dont take the time our of their day to make a connection with me other than sexually. I am not a whore I have only been with 2 guys the second guy got with me after telling me he wants a relationship but now he doesnt talk to me. How can I find the right guy whos going to have a healthy relationship with me and how do i detect if they just want to get in my pants im stressed becasue im lonely im lonely becasue i dont trust and i dont trust becasue i trusted the wrong people. How am i supposed to find a good guy when guys cant get passed my looks.
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your being stressed and lonely hasn't got much to do with your boyfriend problems. you need to engage yourself with other things than just drinking and guys. you said it yourself, you are beautiful and young, and you should use this opportunity to try new things and meet new people. don't rely on your friends alone.
about your boyfriend issues, i think you maybe choose guys who used you. try to go for guys who honestly like you for you, then go out wiht them. and if so many guys like you, go out with them, they obviusly want to. i have a friend whose really hot and she has lots of sweet guys who adore her but she only goes for the guys who she has to work with to even form any kind of relationship try to go for a guy who maybe you didn't consider at first. you might be suprised. and it can't do any harm to try at least.
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Please girl...
You might feel like your life sucks right now, but it's definitely not the end of the world!!
Wake up call - Why do you need a guy? Why do you need a relationship?? Let me tell you something y-o-u d-o-n-t-!
Every girls thinks they need to be in a relationship to feel loved... um hello.. Why not take the chance to love yourself first.
Get to know yourself, find out who or what you want to do in life and in the mean time have fun, have experiences... there is plenty of time to find the 'right' guy!! You can't go searching for it.. it'll hit you like a slap in the face, you'll know when it comes. Don't force it!!
Just be yourself, have fun and get to know the real you! If you can't do that, if you only feel comfortable with a guy and need to be in a relationship, then something is wrong with you!!
Hope I helped :)
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