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sierra
i have this friend sierra well shes been my best friend ever sence kindergarden and i started dateing this boy robert and i love him so much i think shes geles and robert asked me if i would go to a carnivel with him and i said yes but now sierra wont talk to me eney more what should i do
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you need to talk to her and get her to confess why she's not talking to you. and you need to get a new best friend because shes immature
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you have to ask yourself if its worth it...is going out with this guy worth losing your friend....however, if seirra was really your friend she would respect anyone you go out with and not get jealous...
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hey there,
Okay this does seem like a classic case of jealousy.
try to understand a little bit where shes coming from,she probably all of a sudden feels left out and that your gonna be spending way more time with robert and wishes she had a bf too.
whatever you do don't start blowing off and neglecting your friends for bfs.
rmemeber the saying bfs may come and go but friendship is forever.
make equal time for them both hang out just the two of you dont make her feel like a thrid wheel..maybe ask robert to bring one of his friends along for her and you all go to the carnival if he wouldnt mind? she might hit it off with one of them you never know, you could have some alone time with robert then without feeling guilty of leaving sierra on her own?
Just a suggestion entirely up to you.
shes going a tad over board by not talking to you but its just a bit of jealousy and should ease off.
its natural for a best friend to feel that way when the othey gets a bf and one not.
if that makes sense i know my friend has oftern felt it and vice versa.
talk to her tell her shes still so important to you and your bestfriend..if shes still not willing to talk to you and to throw your friendship away over something so trival then to be blunt shes not really worth it is she?
but as i said its probably just upset feelings and worry.
hope all works out and she comes around and that I helped in anyway any more questions please inbox me.
Much <3
Jess 16/f
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