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is he the one?
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 8:32 pm
i'm a senior in high school this year. i've been dating an incredible guy for about nine months. he's been my best friend for almost four years, so we already knew each other really well. he is the most amazing guy i've ever met. we have a deep, deep connection. we're both strong christians and very spiritual and have built our relationship on that. we deeply love each other. i've never felt this serious or in love with anybody. i'd never loved until him. i'm the first girl he's dated, but i've dated a lot before him. i know he is the kind of guy i want to spend the rest of my life with. he knows all of this. we talk about our future together a lot. we hope we will get married someday. this kinda scares me though because we're young and ser...
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lap grinding
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 8:17 pm
when my boyfriend and i (both 17) make out, sometimes i sit backwards in his lap. like with my legs spread and his legs together so our 'privates' are usually touching. we never remove clothes. that's one of our rules. we make out and usually grind while kissing. i let him run his hands up under my shirt, but not touch my boobs. he never has and we've agreed not to go that far. this is very satisfying for both of us, but sometimes the same old making out gets kind of old. does anybody have any tips for making this a little hotter? we're not giving handjobs, blowjobs, or taking off clothes just to clarify.. are there any sexy kissing tips? like what can i do with my hips to turn him on more while sitting like this? or where do i kiss to turn...
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so confused
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 8:13 pm
ok so there is this guy that i really like and he give hints to that he is into me too. it just seems like the only time he talks to me is when its just me and him but i dont know cuz when he is around his friends i guess i really never try to talk to him cuz ive had so many bad relationships and i just kind of back away. im so confused on what to do i dont want to get hurt.....
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movies?
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 7:41 pm
okay so i'm supposed to be going to the movies with this guy i like. it's not definitely planned, but i mentioned i wanted to the see the movie really badly, and he said he'd go with me.
just like that.
as of now, i believe it's just us, but i don't know what to think of it.
like, we're friends, but i like him, but i'm not sure if this is just as friends, or if maybe he wants something more?
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Cancer plus a gemini?♥
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 5:26 pm
hey, i believe in the zodiac stuff. So, i was wondering if me and my boy friend are a good match. My birthdays july 22 so i'm a cancer. He's a gemini? I think we are a good match, but i just want to check. ahah thanks for helping:)
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i really like him but idt he likes me anymore
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 2:04 pm
okay so i really really like this guy.
he is 18 and im 14 (about to be 15 in october 20). last night he went to my towns football game and he said the night before that he is going to ME! well last night when he came, like after 5 minutes or so he said that he will be right back. so when he left, me and my friend left where he was going because we were sitting on the visitors side. so we sat on our home side and he saw us but he never came back. and then he went to his friends and everytime girls came in the group and talked to him. and yeah i got jealous and madd. well after like 20 minutes he still ddidnt come. so my friend texted him saying that he is fucked up because he left me and that im fixing to leave. but then he came and a...
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I think I love him... but I don't want to get hurt...
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 1:30 pm
15/f (the guy is 16)... first off, I'd like to say that I think that "loving someone" and "being in love" are different things... anyways so I've been going out with this guy for 3 weeks and one day and I think it's just going GREAT :) which is just amazing because I am terrible at relationships... I've had a lot of really really short term relationships... There were only 2 guys that I was really serious about (before this one) but now i'm over them. Now, about my new boyfriend :) this guy is just...wow he's perfect... I don't think I've ever met a guy that I've had such a connection with :) we just have so much in common and I can always just be myself around him... I'm his first girlfriend and I was his first kiss so ...
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This Dude. XD
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 12:52 pm
Alright so there's this kid in two of my classes who's wicked cute, and I wanted to get to know him better. From what i've heard though:he'll flirt with any girl. But i have a feeling he's just one of those "wanna be" players, like he's the kind of guy that trys to act all cool at first when in reality he has no idea what he's doing :P. So i know when guys are flirts, they usually like girls that play hard to get or tease them. I've been doing that, but i want him to fall for me, not just think i'm a game. He gave me his number and told me to text him, so i did. He told me he thought i was gorgeous,which made me obviously in a good mood XD. But i'm afraid that to this guy, i'm just another cute girl, as the many others he talks to...
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naked pictures??
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 12:50 am
Okay so recently Ive been talking to this guy (I'm fifteen, so is he) we'll call him Mike and he's really nice and funny and sweet and sincere, you get the idea. Well for the past month or so we've just been hanging out as friends, flirting a lot, and a tiny bit of physical stuff. Well I've started to really like him. He's awesome and I think he likes me too. But see theres this like senior girl who likes him (kinda creepy, yeah) and her two friends who are also like okay buddys with me were talking to me about it. They said that Mike had sent their friend (the one that likes him) naked pictures of himself, like no pants... Ew. I asked one of Mike's really close friends/my friend if this was true and the friend said "I knew they were t...
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how do you turn the game around on an ex?
Posted Friday October 2 2009, 3:43 pm
my ex has been playing these games with me for a year and half now (ever since he broke up with me)
how do i get it so hes chasing me instead of me chasing him?
he dated another girl and came back to me and i had him chasing me for like a month this summer, but somehow im again in the vulnerable hurtful position
how do i get him to chase me again?
or how do i tell him without sounding childish that this isnt going to work
its obviously not going to workout because if it was, we had a year and a half to get back together. weve had this whole summer to get back together also when he dumped his new girlfriend who he dated for a month for me. but we never got back together.
whenver i try to talk to him ...
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too much confusion!
Posted Friday October 2 2009, 8:20 am
i am a girl, 18 years of age, from india. i met a guy on the internet a few months ago. he's the same age as me. we both live in different cities but are in contact through net and phone calls. he had proposed me about 2 months back, but at that time i had refused because by his behaviour and the no. of girls he's in contact with, i thought he was a flirt. we still continued to be great friends. but i realised that i have fallen in love with him just a few days ago when he stopped calling me or taking my calls. but then, after a few days he told me that he had been out of his town that's why couldn't take my calls. and now he has reduced the no. of times he used to call. please help me, because i dont want to lose him now. even though i kno...
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why is she better than me..
Posted Friday October 2 2009, 2:24 am
19female. never had a boyfriend before. fell in love with my best friend. he had a girlfriend for 3 years. shes one of the prettiest girls i know. recently broke up but are still very close and i know they still have feelings for each other. my cousin was on facebook and saw that she had gotten one and clicked on her page and it was private but we could see her picture and it was of her and my best friend. i was SOOOO down after like, like really depressed. i dont even know why. his facebook has no pictures of them two on there. it just bothers me that they're so close and i know shes still in love with him, shes a bit obsessed he has said. but she still has the thing i want and thats him. and i get down on myself because i look at how pret...
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What do you think the perfect guy is like?
Posted Thursday October 1 2009, 7:11 pm
Could you please decide the perfect guy in your eyes? Any and all details would be appreciated. I'm trying to help my best guy friend improve himself and get the girl of his dreams but he needs a lot of work. I need other thoughts from other girls so I can figure out what are the most wanted and liked traits in guys. He said he was up for anything including cutting his hair, growing it out, dying it, gaining or losing weight and/or muscle, and anything that he will have to change to his personality. He wants to be a new guy and I want to help him! Thoughts, please?
OH and by the way he is 16 right now almost 17.
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Jealousy
Posted Thursday October 1 2009, 6:09 pm
18/f
Long story short, I am insecure, and I have dated my bf for about 2 years now. We even live together due to certain complications lol. But, I hate when I start a debate and end up finding out obvious things like the fact that he looks at other girls, especially areas quite uncomfortable. And all he says is "I try to look away, and distract myself, which I do, by finding some other guy who looks stupid staring at the girl". It really gets me jealous... I wish I weren't insecure and jealous, and I cant help it, can anyone try and help mee?
sincerely,
insecurely jealous.
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me and my girlfriends relationship
Posted Thursday October 1 2009, 11:46 am
im a 17 and of course im a guy lol, my girlfriend thinks i dont meet her standerds, she loves when i eat her out, but i feel like im not doing it right, how could i make it feel amazing for her?
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Boys and their unfamiliar antics.
Posted Thursday October 1 2009, 11:01 am
boys, and their unfamiliar antics. !17/f, this guy that i sort of like is a sophomore at my school he is supposed to be a junior, i think he's 16...he has a girlfriend, and she lives in a town close to ours but she is going to college. she also will not let me talk to him or hang out with him alone. honestly, yeah i like him but id NEVER let anyone cheat on anyone else with me, and i was just learning to play the drums from him. he told me he doesnt feel comfortable hanging out with me alone because he doesnt want to chance it, and i told him theres nothing to worry about because id never want to hurt someone the way ive been hurt...(my first love cheated on me) and he said fine, he asked his girlfriend if he could hang out with me and she ...
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He hates me? :(
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 11:02 pm
What should I do if, the guy that I like hates me.
Although I think he likes me but he's too afraid to admit it. He hates me because he thinks I did some mean things toward his family and sister, eventhough I didn't. And I think he likes me because when we were alone he'd be all nice but with other people around he was mean. we argued often as well...hmmm. He recently started hating me out of the blue. What should I do?
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How to handle going out with an ex girlfriends best friend
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 10:36 pm
It's been a difficult situation so I wanted to see what some anonymous people think about it. I'm a 21 year old guy and there's a girl that's been really kingly and wants to go out with me. I'm having trouble just avoiding her and I'm really not into her, but it seems she's kind of obsessed with me.
The problem is I've recently been spending time with her best friend which I'm really getting close to. I know her friend is interested, but I'm hesitant and she is also to get into a relationship because I don't want to be in the way of their friendship with each other.
I feel like bad to be messing up their friendship, but on the other hand I feel it's not my fault and I was never interested in the first girl and it sh...
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Why am I still not over him?!
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 10:19 pm
I seriously am going crazy with this guy... his name's Kris and he's like one of thee most amazing, sweet, gorgeous, athletic, guys I have ever met. We had a big fling during the summer but it ended because of me :/ I ended it with him because there was so much drama involved in it (lots of rumors about him, girls were incredibly jealous/catty towards me, etc.) and I just couldn't take it anymore. He and I were like heartbroken well at least I was :( and I'm still not OVER him. Like it's been a month now and I can't seem to focus... not in school, or sports or anything without him in my mind! When ever I see him which is quite often I get butterflies in my stomach, my legs feel week, etc. I think I still like him a lot but I'm not sure... I...
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Pregnant? :o
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 10:02 pm
Okay, well. Earlier last month (September) My boyfriend and I were taking a shower and after just went to the bed to carry it on. We were both naked and all, but he never stuck it in or anything. We're both still virgins. But afterwards, I wanted to take a bubble bath and so we did. We didnt do anything in there, I just played with the bubbles and stuff. I'm just wondering, could something have happened when we were in his bed? I was on top of him and everything, and my vagina was down there along with his penis, but like I said, we didnt do anything. But his penis was against me. Also, can sperm like, swim through the water in the bathtub and get into me? I'm just a wee bit paranoid right now.
Thank you :D!
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